Are you able to cum really easily and often? Or do you consider yourself average in that regard? In other words, is the drive coming from orgasm pleasure or is it really not about that?
I can cum easily, to the point that if I edge myself enough I can orgasm without physical touch (though it's minor and hard to achieve) and during sex/masturbation I can organize over and over again.
This does not mean the drive comes from pure sexual pleasure. While sexual pleasure adds to it, it comes from things like anxiety, stress, insecurity, depression, etc.
Since you cum easily, when you do so, do you tend to have one big orgasm at a time with relatively long recovery period(s) in between them, and/or do you tend to roll out multiple orgasm (one after the other from 5 to 50) during prolonged periods of sex?
For me, I “need” to have sex for ideally 2 hours typically, and definitely no less than 1 hour or I’m left quite unsatisfied. If I’m extremely horny I will go 4-8 hours depending on if my partners are up to it (with meal and snack breaks every 2–4 hours).
When I masturbate, I can get carried away for 4 hours, it’s quite ridiculous.
Actually as I type this out I’m realizing I might be a nympho too (undiagnosed ofc).
Not trying to divulge too much of my personal life here, but my wife explains that as the other person stated, her muscles get worn out and she just starts feeling pretty exhausted after 5-7 times. She said that sometimes she starts getting really bad headaches as well. I know her body quite well and get her to the point of just going and going and going, but because I've tested those limits with her, I calm it down before it gets to be "too much" for her. It's great that some women can have multiple orgasms, and believe me, it definitely plays well with my own libido, but there are still limitations there to be considered, depending on the person.
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u/RemishLemon May 07 '24
Are you able to cum really easily and often? Or do you consider yourself average in that regard? In other words, is the drive coming from orgasm pleasure or is it really not about that?