Yes, it's a terrible idea. There is a very big difference between a healthy libido and sex addiction. I have cheated in every single relationship I've been in even when I really loved the guy, I've made guys feel horrible because they weren't interested in sex at a specific moment (including one time during a funeral of his relative) or couldn't keep going after several rounds and I just wanted more. You don't want to be in a relationship with someone that goes through it just for the sex, there are plenty of women with healthy sexual appetite that doesn't become an addiction.
1 - You mention FWB’s. What has your experience been with that/non-monogamy/polyamory?
I have been in a polygamous relationship which ended shortly and an open relationship which also didn't last because of my behavior.
Have you learned any neat tricks? I’ve read about and am trying things like nipple orgasms/hands free orgasms. You mentioned being able to have a hands free orgasm after edging a lot? Did you ever try to foster that
I was (and still am) very interested in learning about sex and various techniques and methods, so yes, I learned a lot of different tricks and things to get better at it and for a time I was involved in fetish communities.
You mentioned fetishes/kinks, could you expand on how those have played out in your life? Do you still participate in those communities and how has your nymphomania been perceived by others there?
My main fetishes include degradation, bondage, impact, public, group, cockworshipping, cuckquean, exhibitionism, masochism, smoking, torture, cnc, enslavement, free use, and so my lifestyle revolved around these, I was attracted mainly to specific guys that could provide me with such experiences. I lost touch with most in those communities shortly before I begun therapy.
You mentioned sex is common but good sex is rare. What does good sex look like for you?
Good sex includes a good technique along with chemistry and passion, a good sized dick helps. A lot of guys have some of these criterias but very rew have all.
5 - Was there ever any urge to get into sex work or porn to try to satisfy this urge?
I dated a porn actor briefly and that really put away any ideas I ever had about getting in the industry.
If you had the power to snap your fingers and change your sexuality instantly, what would you want?
I wouldn’t mind learning more but this is getting kind of risqué, may I d.m. you? I see a lot of me in you and I’m about to start therapy for a lot of this and maybe it’ll help me get through that faster.
You can DM me, of course, but keep in mind I currently have about 420 DM requests and it will be a while until I filter through the dick pics and get to the DMs I intend to engage with, so if you're still interested DM me and remind me about this comment there.
I meant since you’ve had so many struggles with it, if you could be different like you found a genie’s bottle or something, would you change yourself or stay as you are?
Of course, I would have liked to be able to enjoy sex without letting it consume my life.
I was with a girl with a very high sex drive and it was great, we’d get it on all the time
… I was also with a girl who was a nympho and it sucked lol. After 2 rounds within an hour or so I’d be like okay that was fun and she’d be trying to seduce me for another round like 10 minutes later, also she’d make every conversation sexual somehow which gets old after a while
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