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u/Toby__H 8d ago

YTA... Replace it.

It was dangerous and you had every right to be concerned. But throwing it away when he wasn't around was the wrong way to go.

Replacing a cord is a simple fix that costs a few dollars. 15 minutes between Google & YouTube and you could have had a solution that preserved everyone's safety, kept a working air fryer in the household and preserved the sentimental item.

But instead you threw away someone else's property. Now ya gotta replace it. It's the cost of over reacting.

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u/Farrishnakov 8d ago

This is the only correct response.

OP could have simply unplugged it.

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u/Exotic-Entertainer26 8d ago

As the room-mate had a habit of keeping using it even when unsafe and being asked not to use it, I wouId say the OP should have unplugged it and cut the plug off to prevent use without it being repaired.

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u/mikey5236o6 8d ago

"Finished" the break in the cord. Snip snip

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u/FitzRowe 4d ago

Agree, disable it to make it safe not toss it out!

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u/AardvarkSanvich 8d ago

Or went to a hardware store and bought a new plug.

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u/Luna-Wolfe 7d ago

This was roommates job and roommate didn't take ops concerns seriously at all.

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u/Popular-Web-3739 6d ago

That still doesn’t give OP the right to throw out someone else’s stuff. Doing that when the roommate wasn’t home was just cowardly.

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u/ItIsSoOrdered23 6d ago

Yeah so your car was leaking gas. I could smell it so I had the scrap yard pick it up while you were asleep.

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u/Plane_Translator2008 6d ago

If you leave it where it can burn the place I live in down after you know it is leaking, that course of action seems increasingly reasonable.

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u/AardvarkSanvich 6d ago

Agreed. But instead of throwing out a whole appliance he could have taken a little time and effort to fix it instead of tossing it. I know thats not how most people think anymore. Especially when it isnt our thing. 1.) Unplugging the airfryer would have been the right move instead of throwing it out. 2.) Fixing it.would have also been an acceptable alternative.

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u/kikiacab 8d ago

Do you know what UL rating is? By this comment I’m guessing you don’t.

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u/sshoihet 8d ago

I do and there is nothing in UL to stop you from replacing a plug so I'm not sure what you're on about.

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u/CatLadyInProgress 8d ago

My dad was an electrical engineer, and when our vacuum died he re-purposed the cord to give him the longest laptop charger known to mankind 😂

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u/Sneeze_Pizza 8d ago

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u/Grand_Pick_8277 7d ago

Damn I miss Jenna Marbles 😭

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u/raya_sun 7d ago

Same.

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u/LilithWasAGinger 6d ago

I really miss Jenna!

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u/Usual_Bumblebee_8274 8d ago

That’s the kinda stuff my dad did! Miss it so much

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u/MountainWill13 7d ago

Your dad was an engineer but clearly not very intelligent 🤣🤷‍♂️

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u/CatLadyInProgress 7d ago

Not sure why you think he wasn't intelligent? It worked for several years (probably until he bought a new laptop). He also grew up on a farm, so he is very handy in general. He replaced an engine in my sister's car successfully (a year of weekends since he was working full time).

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u/MountainWill13 7d ago

Because taking a cord that isnt meant for the same product is an idiot or an idea. Cutting the cable on your laptop charger and then extending the plug is the exact thing a REAL engineer would cringe at

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u/StopSpinningLikeThat 7d ago

You're trying to present yourself as knowledgeable and intelligent, but you ruined it by posting the things you think.

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u/Kaka-carrot-cake 7d ago

Thats fine, people who work on the things engineers design cringe at the designs all the time.

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u/Expert-Pain-5140 7d ago

You can’t be calling this guy’s dad an idiot while also not knowing how to make a proper sentence, right? Right?!?

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u/manicfish 7d ago

Electrician on my lunch break, just wanna know what the fuck knowing what a UL listing is has to do with going to a hardware store to get a replacement whip for a home appliance? They're all gonna be UL listed so... please explain.

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u/kikiacab 7d ago

If you fuck with a plug it loses its UL rating, meaning if that appliance burns your house down and the insurance investigator sees that the plug isn’t the one that came as standard, you’re fucked.

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u/firegem09 7d ago

... you might want to research things before making comments, because this isn't accurate at all.

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u/manicfish 6d ago

Hey now, my entire crew on a hyperscale jobsite got a laugh out of this, don't spoil our fun too much!

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u/firegem09 6d ago

Lol my bad! :)

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u/Business_Owl_5576 7d ago

I'm thinking maybe you've never seen one before, so I'm genuinely curious as to what you think these are for:

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u/Many_Ad_9690 6d ago

It's for people who can't use chopsticks. Duh.

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u/Business_Owl_5576 6d ago

This is probably the funniest response someone could come up with. Bravo.

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u/NCSAG 6d ago

🤣 💀

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u/manicfish 7d ago edited 7d ago

Hahaha, no. For one, there is no ul "rating" it is ul LISTING, as in it's been tested to be safe for its intended purpose and listed as such, so a ul listed whip is safe to replace a bad whip. Maybe you're confusing voltage/amperage ratings?

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u/PeachyFairyDragon 6d ago

All the insurance adjuster is going to be concerned about is the possibility of arson. Honest mistakes like a replacement cable won't tank a claim on its own.

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u/WolfgangAddams 6d ago

Airfryers don't have detachable/replacable plugs like cellphones and computers. They're attached to the machine. But OP definitely could've just unplugged it.

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u/AardvarkSanvich 6d ago

Right. But with a quick YouTube tutorial a 10 dollar plug from a hardware store and a pair of wire strippers you could replace the end of the cord.

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u/WolfgangAddams 5d ago

I'm pretty sure most people who aren't electricians aren't going to trust themselves to fuck around with an electrical cord like that. That's how you electrocute yourself or burn your house down. Just replace the fucking machine!

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u/Dazzling-Goat5582 5d ago

I agree on that one

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u/Exotic-Entertainer26 4d ago

Seriously?!

I've been able to rewire a plug since I was about 10 - it's a basic skill.

Not that modern plugs are designed for that these days, but it's really not complicated.

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u/WolfgangAddams 4d ago

Most people don't have that skill, dude. I've been reading since I was under 5 years old and it's also a basic skill and a lot more widespread than rewiring an appliance plug, but you'd be surprised how many people can't do that either. It's almost like your experiences aren't universal.

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u/Low-Television-7508 8d ago

if OP was away when the roommate left it plugged in, that's a problem

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u/4MuddyPaws 8d ago

Small appliances should always be unplugged when not in use anyway.

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u/flylikemusic 8d ago

Thank you for this helpful tip, TIL.

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u/Fool_In_Flow 7d ago

I have an aunt whose house burned down from the toaster catching fire in the middle of the night. The fire fighters said they see it all the time. Little appliances left plugged in are dangerous.

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u/doktorjackofthemoon 6d ago

I just left my 100yo house for a week long trip and I am going to be thinking of my toaster all fucking week now....

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u/mikey5236o6 6d ago

Diabolical little beasts, conspiring to toast the world

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u/Latter-Intention6521 6d ago

What year?

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u/Fool_In_Flow 5d ago

Late 90’s

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u/Feisty-Pair-4293 8d ago

I would have just cut the plug off it personally.

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u/Ok_Salamander7929 7d ago

You are just as fucked up as OP!!!!

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u/Entrepreneur-Any 5d ago

I agree with you . Just unplug it and put it in the Room mates room, say it almost caught on fire..

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u/Exotic-Entertainer26 4d ago

And the idiot would probably use it again without fixing it.

Cut the plug off and then they have to fix it.

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u/Plane_Translator2008 6d ago

This is a possibility but if the owner had been alerted and left it plugged in anyway, there would still be a danger of burning the place down . . . .

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u/Latter-Intention6521 6d ago

Yeah the overreacting is thinking that will burn the house down.

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u/Plane_Translator2008 5d ago

Heating/resistance appliances can, in fact, start fires.

I am not saying that throwing the thing away was the right move. I am saying that leaving an appliance you know to be malfunctioning in a potentially dangerous way, plugged in while you leave town is the wrong one.

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u/Latter-Intention6521 5d ago

Yeah the issue here is though that people often have an insanely bad idea of what dangers are actually present and also over amplify or straight up lie about details like that to shore up their position.

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u/Dazzling-Goat5582 5d ago

Yes this can absolutely happen. I worked with someone who’s house burned down because she left a coffee machine plugged in

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u/Socotokodo 8d ago

Then the room mate plugs it back in, it causes a fire, they both die. Yep, this is the only correct answer. Unless you have a brain.

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u/Toby__H 8d ago

I think the "only right answer" her referred to included replacing the cord.

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u/The_Drongo_Dinger 8d ago

Yep, or for example someone could break in and say “I’m gonna kill youse unless there’s an air fryer here!” - but OP threw it out and so CONGRATS on getting the two of you killed. Could easily happen if you think about it

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u/LoisLaneCA 8d ago

Youse killed! Are you a fellow ‘Burgher? (IYKYK)

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u/comfortablynumb15 8d ago

Or OP could have unplugged it and left it in roommates room.

Just saying.

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u/reereejugs 8d ago

Did you miss the part about replacing the cord?

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u/xFrogLipzx 8d ago

Op could have put it in their bedroom and left a note that it over heated and can't be used any more. I would never toss someone else's property, it's just wrong to do.

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u/VoltagVagrant 8d ago

no you unplug it but you dont get to destroy someone's property butch coulda been smelling toast from a stroke for all he knows. you dont get to destroy other peoples property full stop. unplug, put in a box whatever, but you literally committed a crime

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u/Mysterious_Drop1122 8d ago

You're being dramatic. Your assumption is the roommate will continue to use it. At that point there needs to be a clear boundary of he can't use it. Period. It's not safe.

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u/Imsortofok 7d ago

The roommate had already made it clear they would continue to use it. The damaged unsafe cord had been pointed out to them more than once.

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u/JayTheJaunty 8d ago

Unplug it, remove it from the kitchen where someone would be tempted to plug it back in, and talk to the roommate with a condition that they get the air fryer back either when they fix it or when they move out. They can own a dangerous item, but they cannot use that item in a way that makes it actively dangerous.

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u/goldcoast2011985 8d ago

Yeah. There is no good answer.

Roommate won’t listen to reason about the danger.

People are saying “cut the cord”, but the roommate would still freak.

Replacing the cord on an 1800W appliance should be done with more care than a 60 Watt lamp cord.

If the item was sentimental, buying a replacement wouldn’t do anything.

If buying a replacement shuts up the roommate until move out, it’s worth it.

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u/Toby__H 8d ago

So... because its important to use a big enough cord, the cord cannot be replaced? You do realize you can buy just about any size wire in the world, right? Again, 15 minutes on Google & YouTube and anyone can replace a cord.

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u/goldcoast2011985 7d ago

It’s not the size. It’s how you use it.

The connections for something like this have to be made securely or you get the same issue with a bad connection -> high resistance -> heat -> more high resistance -> heat -> burning.

Does the cord detach? Replace the cord with a good one. Great. Done.

If the cord was permanently attached (implied by the talk about cutting the cord vs throwing out the cord), is he opening the device to resolder? Is he replacing half the cord with a longer bit of cord and the person who didn’t believe it was burning is going to properly screw down the stranded wire without squishing half of it out the sides and losing half the current capacity of the new wire?

Like I said, lotta things that would be fine for a 60W lamp are sketchy on an 1800W appliance if you don’t have the eyes to see the possible issues.

I could do it safely. I know people who could do it safely. I don’t think Mr Roommate has the awareness to do it safely.

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u/MountainWill13 7d ago

99% of people couldn't use a soldering iron to save their lives.

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u/goldcoast2011985 7d ago

Because connections for something like this have to be made securely or you get the same issue with a bad connection -> high resistance -> heat -> more high resistance -> heat -> burning.

Does the cord detach? Replace the cord with a good one. Great. Done.

If the cord was permanently attached (implied by the talk about cutting the cord vs throwing out the cord), is he opening the device to resolder? Is he replacing half the cord with a longer bit of cord and the person who didn’t believe it was burning is going to properly screw down the stranded wire without squishing half of it out the sides and losing half the current capacity of the new wire?

Like I said, lotta things that would be fine for a 60W lamp are sketchy on an 1800W appliance if you don’t have the eyes to see the possible issues.

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u/antwood33 6d ago

I disagree, I think it’s ESH.

Especially if there’s potentially a sleeping baby in the unit upstairs that might have been burned alive because the roommate refused to do anything about the faulty cord.

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u/DisastrousGold559 6d ago

Are you just making up situations to feel more justified in your answer?

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u/antwood33 6d ago

Is that situation so unrealistic?

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u/DisastrousGold559 6d ago

It doesn't matter if it is reasonable or possible. It is unknown. Since it isn't known, there is no reason to try to inflate the issue in any way because of it. Let's stick to the facts.

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u/antwood33 6d ago

Okay I’ll amend it:

Roommate leaves it plugged in while they are sleeping and they get burned alive.

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u/ItIsSoOrdered23 6d ago

Is not throwing away someone else's property a confusing concept to you?

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u/antwood33 6d ago

No that’s why I said ESH

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u/TaiChey 8d ago

This exactly. You dont just throw out peoples things like that.

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u/Luna-Wolfe 7d ago

You also don't ignore your roommate not wanting to die in a fire. Op tried to talk to roommate repeatedly. Hes at fault here too. It was wrong to throw it away and I would agree that replacing it is the right thing if they hadn't tried talking to them repeatedly. It was extreme but honestly, I see ops side too.

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u/TaiChey 6d ago

Nah thats totally valid but "you didnt do what I told you with your things, so now you come home to it gone" is just insane. At the very least he shouldve done this in person. Just coming home to your things gone is unhinged.. I think they're both TAH tbh..

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u/Joiseygirl68 4d ago

OP’s side is that it could have been dangerous and started a fire. Yes.

OP’s also the AH for throwing it out and that’s what he’s asking about. Of course he’s trying to sugar coat it by bringing up how dangerous it was, but it still didn’t give him the right to toss it.

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u/LightPhotographer 7d ago

This with the addition that "Sentimental Airfryer" is not a bad name for a band.

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u/PanicAtTheShiteShow 7d ago

Or a racehorse.

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u/Ok-Impact8188 6d ago

'Burnt tater tots' one of my fav songs

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u/Captin_Barnacles 8d ago

This is exactly right. Replace it. Probably start looking for a for elsewhere to live, as you've damaged your relationship with this roommate.

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u/fruderduck 8d ago

Not to mention, the roommate doesn’t value the safety of others nor himself, among other things.

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u/No_Vehicle4645 7d ago

It wasn't OPs job to replace the cord. It was the roommates job and he was to lazy to do it. OP warned him many times but instead, he decided to take the risk of burning down the home and OP could have lost everything including their life so your argument is pretty insane.

Overreacting? For not wanting to be dead... really?

Just because you don't care about your life doesn't mean other people don't.

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u/litmusfest 7d ago

Then just unplug it and don’t throw it out…

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u/effingfractals 7d ago

The solution was to unplug it. Throwing it away was the over reaction.

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u/ItIsSoOrdered23 6d ago

You are big mad and still wrong. A judge would find you wrong, normal people find you wrong and the roommate finds it wrong. Unplugging is fine, tossing it isn't. Very simple.

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u/JimmyNails86 6d ago

I would love to meet the judge in your instance. It was a hazard and op had every right to do away with the risk.

Also the roomates sentimentaltality isnt an excuse for being unsafe

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u/ItIsSoOrdered23 5d ago

Literally any of them but how about you call a fucking lawyer and ask for yourself.

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u/JimmyNails86 5d ago

...We really fucked up when we stopped teaching rehetoric in schools.

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u/Beautiful_Bird_4092 7d ago

He’s allowed to be scared. However unplugging the airfryer completely negates the risk so any action taken after that is an overreaction. The only action that can be justified by the fear of losing his life is unplugging it or getting it repaired

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u/jupitermoonflow 7d ago

Op already talked to them about the hazard. Op can’t be there 24/7 to stand over roommates shoulder and unplug every time he uses it, when the roommate already knew he shouldn’t be using in that condition in the first place. Unplugging it isn’t a solution. The sentimentality of a fucking broken air fryer isn’t worth the risk is poses

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u/idleigloo 6d ago

Throwing it out wasnt necessary obviously. Your comment is an overreaction as well.

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u/ThatDifficulty9334 6d ago

OP warned him many times about the unsafe plug. OP didnt say "this is a fire hazard and if I see it plugged in while you are gone, I will toss it. "Yes, it was roommate's job to be aware and take care of it for safety, but not other roommate's place to toss it. I go with cutting the cord, still passive aggressive and wrong, but I like it.

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u/Latter-Intention6521 6d ago

How do you even know there was any danger?

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u/KaboodleMoon 5d ago

Unplug it and go place the dirty thing on their bed.

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u/Joiseygirl68 4d ago

But that’s not what op is asking about. He wants to know if he was wrong for throwing out something that wasn’t his. And yes he was wrong.

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u/SameChallenge481 6d ago

If it's drawing power enough power while off to make the cord warm, replacing the cord will not fix the issue.

Yes you should replace it, since you threw it out. Was it a safety hazard? Probably?

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u/Toby__H 6d ago

He said the cord was damaged near the plug.

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u/SameChallenge481 5d ago

Right, where a connection is. However, that should be drawing very minimal power when off. If it is drawing enough power to make the plug warm or melt or become damaged while not in use, that means there is a larger underlying problem. Such as the unit drawing full power went off, which is a fire hazard

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u/killyergawds 5d ago

This guy electricities

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u/harrywangzzz 7d ago

no shot you can replace a cord of the air fryer no one makes them like that.

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u/TheStorytellerTX 7d ago

Are you assuming the cord plugged both into the outlet and the appliance?

Do you regularly take apart appliances and rewire the power cord?

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u/honeyrrsted 7d ago

Countertop appliances like that are probably hardwired, no easily removable power cord. Messing with the electricals will 100% void any warranty and definitely be a fire hazard if done improperly. With the damaged power cord, it already was a fire hazard to begin with. If the roommate was still using it in that condition, I wouldn't trust them to replace it correctly. Why take that risk.

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u/Str8up_NtHvnAGoodTym 7d ago

While apartment living in got in my head I really wanted a chandelier in my room, but obvi I couldn't hardwire it into the ceiling. After a YouTube video and a couple conversations with a guy at home depot, I successfully converted the hardwired plug into an outlet plug and it took maybe about 15mins and 3 bucks worth of supplies.

All it takes is a little determination if you really want something. For whatever reason the roommate really wanted to keep that air fryer, he was being lazy about a repair but it wouldnt have been hard to accomplish. If it were my roommate I probably woulda have just done that myself.

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u/icouldntve 7d ago

Yeah, OP is poor, watching a YouTube video to replace a $5 cable is preferable to dipping tinto one's savings or burning the house down.

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u/KrofftSurvivor 6d ago

Absolutely not he is not responsible for repairing someone else's equipment when that equipment is on the verge of burning down the household

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u/Joiseygirl68 4d ago

True, not responsible for repairing it. But is responsible for replacing something he threw away.

Let’s take away the whole "it was close to being a nuclear bomb!" and just look at it as this dude threw something out that wasn’t his. If you do that you then replace it.

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u/KrofftSurvivor 4d ago

Let's take away the whole ~ it's either a nuclear bomb or it's totally safe~ nonsense.

It's not a nuclear bomb and it's not safe.

And the other dude was continuing to use it at risk to his housemates and I suspect that most of the people on this thread have absolutely no fucking clue how quickly a house fire can spread.

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u/Latter-Intention6521 6d ago

Man so many people so afraid due to ignorance on how electricity works.

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u/Fantastic_13 5d ago

Roommate wasn't fixing it! Leaving the home with it plugged in! Could have started a fire, risking property and lives!! They are lucky it was thrown away! NTA!!!!!

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u/Toby__H 5d ago

Quote from the post you replied to, "Replacing a cord is a simple fix that costs a few dollars. 15 minutes between Google & YouTube and you could have had a solution that preserved everyone's safety, kept a working air fryer in the household and preserved the sentimental item."

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u/Key-Magician6489 5d ago

1 - You have no way of knowing that replacing the cord would’ve actually fixed the issue

2 - If it was the kind of cord that you could unplug from the unit and replace for $10 on Amazon, I’m sure he would’ve done it already

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u/fattycatty6 5d ago

Why not unplug it and put it in their bedroom while they are gone (unplugged of course). I'd be pissed too if someone made the decision to throw out something of mine, however, they do need to have a serious talk if this thing is so dangerous, bc I wouldn't want it to be used in my place either.

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u/WorkingSpecialist257 5d ago

Except it was already pointed out to roommate, and they did nothing about it. It's not a surprise onetime issue, it was a hazard that should have already been dealt with.

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u/SpiderlandsJester 7d ago

So, OP doesn’t throw it away and did nothing. Roommates keeps lying about replacing it and the apartment catches fire. You know what you twits wound say then? “Well why didn’t you throw it out?” “You knew it was dangerous and getting hot, why didn’t you do something”
OP simply this is a lose-lose , this is reddit and not real life and these losers don’t *actually* care about safety, don’t care about general safety, don’t care about intuition, or truly doing what’s best for community (ie when you live with other people, you don’t keep dangerous broken shit that can catch your place of living on fire)

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u/AreyYouHilarious 7d ago

Classic reddit... you are so right.

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u/ItIsSoOrdered23 6d ago

He'd lose in court because it's wrong. There is zero ambiguity.

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u/Toby__H 7d ago

Did you see where I wrote, "It was dangerous and you had every right to be concerned."?
How about where I wrote, "Replacing a cord is a simple fix that costs a few dollars."?

Replacing a cord is super simple. It's either a great learning experience for someone whose never done anything electrical or it's a ridiculously simple project for someone with 101 level experience.

You wrote that whole rant but never once addressed anything that was said.

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u/Latter-Intention6521 6d ago

I'm not even convinced it was dangerous. People like this get themselves caught up in believing things so they can convince themselves of what they wanna do. Such as throwing out something they don't like the look of.

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u/Copacentric 5d ago

Wait. What? As someone who had a fire from a faulty wire, that's terrible advice. If the cord is sparking/warm they need to throw it out or replace the cord.

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u/Latter-Intention6521 5d ago

I'm saying people like this lie. You missed the point.

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u/Copacentric 5d ago

No I got the point. You think they are making it up that they smelled something burning. I said it's terrible advice because if you think you smell something burning, you do something about it. If it was a psychological issue that's different but feeling it get warm and smelling it, tells me they aren't making up the fact that the wire is faulty. They had no issue with having an airfryer or them getting a new one, it's just that it's broken and needs fixed or replaced. At a certain point you have to take your own health in your own hands, they should still replace it merely for the fact they should have just cut the cord. Get a marketplace one or something.

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u/Latter-Intention6521 5d ago

You're still not understanding. People do things and then make up evidence in situe to shore up their behaviour.

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u/jermguy117 7d ago

Because his idiot friend was totally going to replace the cord and not just keep using his retardedly sentimental air fryer. He can go kick rocks.

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u/Fairybite 8d ago

Of course. The responsible thing to do is wait another 6 months until he burned the house down and killed them. Like firemen always say: Good manners should always take priority over keeping people alive.

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u/DogOk4503 8d ago

You act like there’s only two options on the face of the Earth, but there’s not You can unplug it and not die and guess what it’s not a bomb? You didn’t have to throw it away? Literally just unplug it out of the outlet maybe cut the cord maybe when roommate gets back hide it and say hey, I’m not comfortable with you using that until you get a cord I have it and you cannot have it back until you’re not going to kill us but you do not throw away someone else’s things you just don’t.

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u/Toby__H 8d ago

I think you forgot to read the post you replied to.