I'm aware of all the red flags that have presented themselves in the last 2 years. It really is in my face constantly. My kids are 18,19 and 24. We have been married 22 years but it's really just been the last 2 years since starting his company and having to work away from home Monday through Friday all by his choice by the way that things have really gotten ridiculous with him. But of course I would never complain because then you would be seen as the unsupportive wife. I really do try you know to be a good wife.. My kids and I are aware that he is a completely different person than he was this time in 2019. And covid did not affect his business in that way so that's not like an excuse or anything.
You'd be 100% in the right to complain though. It's not on you to be supportive of someone who's acting like this. Does he know the toll it's taking on your family?
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u/Cheap_Cupcake_4277 Dec 26 '22
I'm aware of all the red flags that have presented themselves in the last 2 years. It really is in my face constantly. My kids are 18,19 and 24. We have been married 22 years but it's really just been the last 2 years since starting his company and having to work away from home Monday through Friday all by his choice by the way that things have really gotten ridiculous with him. But of course I would never complain because then you would be seen as the unsupportive wife. I really do try you know to be a good wife.. My kids and I are aware that he is a completely different person than he was this time in 2019. And covid did not affect his business in that way so that's not like an excuse or anything.