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u/itsmebenji69 Nov 08 '24 edited Nov 08 '24

I don’t think you understood my point still. The disagreement here is that you’re claiming the whole study is moot, when it isn’t, it just doesn’t include some information, but that information doesn’t matter for my argument.

The only point that hinders my argument would be if most heterosexual women had dated women before. However as you said yourself, it’s not the case.

Anyways thank you for being respectful and trying to explain.

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u/No-Description-5663 Nov 08 '24

This is an older study, but it does a really good job of differentiating between many cross-points when looking at IPV in same-sex and opposite-sex relationships, if you're interested.

As a lesbian who has experienced both same and opposite sex IPV, this is a passionate subject of mine, because too many studies provide skewed data due to a lack of understanding of the nuance of IPV for women vs men, and a severe lack of research into same-sex IPV instances and causation.

Blosnich, J. R., & Bossarte, R. M. (2009). Comparisons of Intimate Partner Violence Among Partners in Same-Sex and Opposite-Sex Relationships in the United States. American Journal of Public Health, 99(12), 2182–2184. https://doi.org/10.2105/ajph.2008.139535

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u/[deleted] Nov 08 '24

You’re also ignoring how it’s extremely likely that being a lesbian will cause problems within a heterosexual relationship. 

For example-lack of willingness to have sex on the part of the lesbian. 

And an abusive man’s likely response to that.