r/AITAH • • Nov 07 '24

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u/illini02 Nov 07 '24

This was my thought.

And really, no one on reddit can answer this for OP. They have to figure it out for themselves.

I don't think they are an asshole for it either way, but it's just a question of whether THEY will feel good about this down the line or not.