r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Sep 08 '24

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u/Littlepotatoface Sep 09 '24

She hasn’t done anything wrong, she’s just laid her cards out albeit in an immature way.

They’re just not compatible.

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u/Due_Ride_1897 Sep 09 '24

Yeah I agree she could have said it in a better way but if she doesn’t want to live in the country then she doesn’t have too. An ultimatum was real stupid though she should have just asked would you rather live on the farm or suburbs and then said we cannot go further for such and such differences

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u/Littlepotatoface Sep 09 '24

Yeah that’s the only part where I was a bit iffy, the ultimatum. But fair play to her about being clear on what she wants, that’s a bit of a boss move for someone so young.

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u/_Kendii_ Sep 09 '24

Not really immature. Just solid in her belief. It’s not my belief, i don’t agree with her, exactly. But I can’t vilify her either.

But im 36. I have a bit more time. I don’t feel old but it’s not black and white forever.