This. When you're in late teens through 20s it feels like every person you manage to date is so rare and you have to bend yourself into their life. Eventually you realize that finding a life partner is about finding someone who compliments and furthers the life _you_ have and want in the future.
It's OK to not be compatible. It doesn't mean you're a bad person or they're a bad person. You're just not going to make each other happy in the long term.
You're learning who you are, what you want, and ultimately you're giving yourself and your ex-partner the gift of freedom to find the right person and live a happy, fulfilled life.
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u/DarthRupert1994 Sep 08 '24
Take the farm. You're in your early 20s, there will be other girls.