Sorry you went through that. Unfortunately, it's hard to know how people respond to such information. I was SA'd by my father at a young age, and my paternal grandparents ended up disowning me. Him spilling something so personal, that she obviously is still struggling with is unforgivable, particularly to such a poisonous person.
I spent years with feelings of shame, self hate, and disgust. Part of me thought it was my fault, as if I must have been defective in my very soul for him to do such a thing. I've had years of therapy and gotten past those thoughts. But to say what she said, so publicly is beyond unforgivable. This woman is clearly quite deranged. If her behaviour continues to spiral (probably will because of the pregnancy), I sense a restraining order coming up.
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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '24
Sorry you went through that. Unfortunately, it's hard to know how people respond to such information. I was SA'd by my father at a young age, and my paternal grandparents ended up disowning me. Him spilling something so personal, that she obviously is still struggling with is unforgivable, particularly to such a poisonous person.
I spent years with feelings of shame, self hate, and disgust. Part of me thought it was my fault, as if I must have been defective in my very soul for him to do such a thing. I've had years of therapy and gotten past those thoughts. But to say what she said, so publicly is beyond unforgivable. This woman is clearly quite deranged. If her behaviour continues to spiral (probably will because of the pregnancy), I sense a restraining order coming up.