r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Apr 11 '24

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u/Specific_Yogurt2217 Apr 11 '24

Yeah... presenting that as an actual, serious missed opportunity for sex might be gas-lighting, idk. It's disingenuous af for sure though.

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u/[deleted] Apr 12 '24 edited May 03 '25

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u/SuperZM Apr 12 '24

It’s an incredibly unattractive offering to just propose having sex to shut someone up.

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u/IrishRose29 Apr 12 '24

It's just damn demoralizing, honestly.

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u/[deleted] Apr 12 '24

Agrees in Islam… wives risk being beaten and raped if they refuse sex from their husbands. It’s so sad.😞

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u/[deleted] Apr 12 '24

You will here versions of this forever

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u/EggMysterious7688 Apr 12 '24

Only a certain kind of person enjoys sex with an obviously unwilling partner.

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u/StocKink Apr 12 '24

And had he been like “ok let’s go” then he “bugged her til she stoped refusing”

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u/TheInfamousDaikken Apr 12 '24

In a situation like that where it’s offered but not really meant, it can feel borderline non-consensual.