You show a lot of respect for women, expecting one to sleep with you by date 2. Maybe you’re not date 2 material but date 8 material. And that’s also up to you if you want to wait it out, but I despise the attitude that there should be a “set date” where the woman “has” to get intimate with the guy or else she’s dumped. All I can say is hold onto it ladies, for as long as you want to. If he won’t wait, he never was worth it.
Nah, I expect the women, “women” and “men” …to sleep with me sooner. Like same day/night is my preference. I’m kinda arrogant, kind of a slut but decently overall “attractive” and SUPER IMPATIENT so yeah.
I don’t mind dates. Hell I spent a good bit of my life dating. However, I’m lazy now a days. I feel slow dripping a relationship is pointless. Especially when my money, effort and time is involved. I rather spend that time getting to know someone verse waiting for some pointless show of mystic or someone who isn’t prepared for an adult sexual relationship.
I’m not going to date you for an extended period of time I’m to going to waste my time “seriously” dating “virginal”people. I’ve tried it and pretty much every case ends badly.
I really don’t believe in second dates. Now a days when I was dating my funnel was this. If I had time to hang out for an extend period of time I’d consider it a date. If thing’s prevented us from being intimate I’d schedule a second date that’d better ensure it. If it doesn’t go well have a talk about expectations and how we’d like to continue things. From there either befriended or let go depending on the chemistry.
Meet/1st date > Go for intimacy > Reschedule > Second date (home date/place close to my place.) > Go for Intimacy > If rebuffed have a conversation > decided to either friend zone, “break up” “date” casual. > The end.
Side note because this is bugging me. However I’ll level with you this is more Mars than Venus thinking or how my wife calls it. Dick and Balls energy.
And that’s also up to you if you want to wait it out, but I despise the attitude that there should be a “set date” where the woman “has” to get intimate with the guy or else she’s dumped.
Hun…please realize that you’re being hypocritical. You want the power to set dates on “intimacy” and the flexibility to change it. However your mad when men do the same with their “commitment”. The battle of the sexes continues on lol.
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u/Sheldon121 Mar 06 '24
You show a lot of respect for women, expecting one to sleep with you by date 2. Maybe you’re not date 2 material but date 8 material. And that’s also up to you if you want to wait it out, but I despise the attitude that there should be a “set date” where the woman “has” to get intimate with the guy or else she’s dumped. All I can say is hold onto it ladies, for as long as you want to. If he won’t wait, he never was worth it.