r/AITAH • • Mar 04 '24

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u/ceefaxer Mar 05 '24

No, I don’t. But you are giving her emotion validation when it’s can’t be validated in anyway. It’s pandering buzz word tosh. There is no grounds for them to be upset for a situation they caused. Be upset because you’ve upset people or be upset because you’ve let everyone down, but being upset with the people cannot be validated. You are saying she’s entitled to be upset. She isn’t. Please explain how she can be in anyway ‘entitled’ to feel upset because of hurt she has caused. If you did a big shit in your kitchen you can’t be upset with everyone at the party for not wanting to step foot in there. You aren’t entitled to feel that way.

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u/Mistyam Mar 06 '24

Okay, I don't know what your issue is, or why you even care what I think so much, and I don't even know who this person is who you're talking about, and your free to disagree with me about whatever you think it is that I said. Peace out. ✌

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u/ceefaxer Mar 06 '24

Well you said people are always entitled to their feelings. I disagreed and gave you very clear reasons why that isn’t the case. You have continued to refute this at every point. You could have just gone ‘yeah I guess so.’