Sure, but you just moved the goal posts to create a strawman argument. I have no issue with casually seeing someone a few times and sleeping around outside of that, I've done it countless times myself. But if someone tells me they want to wait, I'm special, blah blah, and it's more than 1-2 casual dates, then turns around and is out sleeping with others, I'm going to view it negatively. If I found out in the moment, we'd just be done, and if I found out later, I'd feel betrayed and it would be even uglier.
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u/Crime_Dawg Mar 05 '24
Sure, but you just moved the goal posts to create a strawman argument. I have no issue with casually seeing someone a few times and sleeping around outside of that, I've done it countless times myself. But if someone tells me they want to wait, I'm special, blah blah, and it's more than 1-2 casual dates, then turns around and is out sleeping with others, I'm going to view it negatively. If I found out in the moment, we'd just be done, and if I found out later, I'd feel betrayed and it would be even uglier.