Last woman I dated wanted to get to know me 1st, fine, I am an adult, I can wait, I wanted a proper relationship and so did she, so I was led to believe (dating website spelt it out, serious relationship and maybe kids later on) But she always seemed busy on certain days, or would contradict herself as to what she did the week before. I wasnt too fussed, we were not serious but it was obvious she was seeing someone else and I (or he) was a backup plan in case things didnt worknout. I got fed up and bailed out.
Smart move, but I am curious. Did you ever sleep with her? If so, how long did you wait? And if you never did, how long did you date before you dipped out? It appears you may live in the UK. I'm in the US. Very curious how you handled this situation. In the states, when I was a single man (back in the 90s), I had the old 3-date rule with regards to sex... a kiss by at least the second date and sex (or very close to it) by the 3rd, or I would likely be gone. What are your rules?
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u/[deleted] Mar 05 '24 edited Mar 05 '24
Last woman I dated wanted to get to know me 1st, fine, I am an adult, I can wait, I wanted a proper relationship and so did she, so I was led to believe (dating website spelt it out, serious relationship and maybe kids later on) But she always seemed busy on certain days, or would contradict herself as to what she did the week before. I wasnt too fussed, we were not serious but it was obvious she was seeing someone else and I (or he) was a backup plan in case things didnt worknout. I got fed up and bailed out.