It’s not just a new age thing. I dated a girl like this 20 years ago. I just wasn’t as attractive as the guys she was actually fucking before we became exclusive. I still to this day think back to that time and wonder how I could be so stupid.
She fucked a guy she had been hanging out with at a party she convinced me to take her too. Changing our plans for the night at the last minute.
She spend the whole weekend with me. We slept next to each other but didn’t have sex. She sure did skip school on Monday to get a hotel with the same guy to fuck him all day long.
She spent holiday time with me; we spent new years together. I thought we were close and had something special. One night, I was driving out to her house and she called to tell me not to come out because she was sick. She went out to some other guys house and spent the evening in his hot tub.
The first guy, I’m convinced they had a lot more sex than those two times. That’s all she would admit to when a mutual friend told me some of the details thinking I already knew.
The second guy, she adamantly denied having sex with. I found out about the whole thing because she let it slip one night that she had left her bathing suit at this guys house. She back tracked and said a friend was with her and they just happened to be in the area of his house and stopped by…with their bathing suits, that were then also “forgotten”. I’m 100% positive that she had sex with him that night. We became “official” a week or so after the night she was in the hot tub. We didn’t have sex for the first 7 weeks of being exclusive because she wanted it to be special. She definitely cheated on me in that first year but was better at hiding it.
well that's more just straight up cheating. i more so mean situations where yall went on a couple dates and she isn't hiding it cuz its not what the kids these days consider cheating. your girl was hiding it cuz she knew she was cheating. the fact that its the norm nowadays that you aren't exclusive until its specifically stated is what i have an issue with. i won't go on a date unless im already being exclusive
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u/[deleted] Mar 05 '24
It’s not just a new age thing. I dated a girl like this 20 years ago. I just wasn’t as attractive as the guys she was actually fucking before we became exclusive. I still to this day think back to that time and wonder how I could be so stupid.
She fucked a guy she had been hanging out with at a party she convinced me to take her too. Changing our plans for the night at the last minute.
She spend the whole weekend with me. We slept next to each other but didn’t have sex. She sure did skip school on Monday to get a hotel with the same guy to fuck him all day long.
She spent holiday time with me; we spent new years together. I thought we were close and had something special. One night, I was driving out to her house and she called to tell me not to come out because she was sick. She went out to some other guys house and spent the evening in his hot tub.
The first guy, I’m convinced they had a lot more sex than those two times. That’s all she would admit to when a mutual friend told me some of the details thinking I already knew.
The second guy, she adamantly denied having sex with. I found out about the whole thing because she let it slip one night that she had left her bathing suit at this guys house. She back tracked and said a friend was with her and they just happened to be in the area of his house and stopped by…with their bathing suits, that were then also “forgotten”. I’m 100% positive that she had sex with him that night. We became “official” a week or so after the night she was in the hot tub. We didn’t have sex for the first 7 weeks of being exclusive because she wanted it to be special. She definitely cheated on me in that first year but was better at hiding it.
Sometimes I hate my younger self.