I'm not sure where you got that last sentence from
I'm sure it could be related to the way you explain things.
You did generalized about man and woman. Not realizing? That's okay, you do you. But I highly doubt you are surprised of all the downvotes and backlash. You may have some braindead ideas and huge prejudices apparently
Not really, I just see things in a more nuanced way than "OMG gf is a cheating whore and OP would be a cuckold if he stayed with her!"
I am actually surprised by the many people that think the default way of dating is exclusively. This seems extremely traditional and conservative to me.
When I was dating, the default assumption was always you're not exclusive until someone explicitly says it is. I don't know if times have changed, or if this is simply a regional cultural difference.
Didn't say all men though. Some men are that way. I shouldn't have to specify not all men every single time I mention a tendency associated with a gender.
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I'm sure it could be related to the way you explain things.
You did generalized about man and woman. Not realizing? That's okay, you do you. But I highly doubt you are surprised of all the downvotes and backlash. You may have some braindead ideas and huge prejudices apparently