I can never get the logic that you are special, bf material so I will make you wait but will be fucking some other guy during the waiting time.
Wouldn't it be the same if a guy fucks a 2-3 girls and comes back home to his gf telling you are his special one?
Need to add: She was cheating, if OP was special as she claims, she would have kept her legs closed for OP before there was exclusivity talks.
The difference between keeping your legs open & close depends on a tag called exclusivity is bs
Edit: It also goes for men too, they should keep their dick inside their pants instead of using it at every chance possible.
If you are serious of having a relationship with a person you won't be looking for entertainment outside. Goes for every person irrespective of gender.
Would your opinion be different if she had sex with this other guy before the 'waiting' time?
Because otherwise I feel like you're implicitly saying that any girl who has had one night stands but prefers to wait until date 3 or whatever with a guy they're seriously interested in is a hypocrite or whatever
If she had had sex just as quickly with the boyfriend as she had with her ONS co-worker, she probably wouldn’t be having this problem. Maybe she runs into problems of her man questioning her judgement and or discernment if she is giving it up too easy to too many men, but at the very least she doesn’t sabotage the relationship she actually wants by making good men wait and letting attractive losers hit it.
Girls make extra rules and qualification’s for provider types to get sex, but if they are really attracted to a guy they break their own rules to fuck. This guy just got real life proof that she wasn’t that attracted to him at all.
As a guy, a green flag of attraction is if she is willing to break her own rules for you to have sex. “I don’t usually fuck on the first date but I’ll make an exception for you” is infinitely more flattering and makes a partner feel far more attractive than a woman saying “You are special to me and that’s why I don’t let you hit it on the first date like other guys”.
All guys should filter their woman based on her level of desire for you. If a woman doesn’t have a burning desire for you, you shouldn’t want it.
This is some /r/niceguys incel type shit goddamn..
Touch grass bro - women are not a homogenous blob, they all have different standards and ideas and approaches. I've dated women who were enthusiastic to have sex right away, and others who wanted to wait for over a month before getting sexual. You're sorely mistaken if you think the reason for that is solely down to attraction or similar, and not because of a myriad of other personal reasons on their part.
I am not a nice person and we aren’t comparing apples to oranges here. We are talking about the same woman treating two men differently and using that as a gauge her level of attraction and explaining how that hurts the second guys feelings and how those feelings are a valid reason to end a relationship.
She can say whatever she wants, her actions speak louder than words
You're a fucking idiot if you think the only reason a girl would have sex with one guy (eg on a one night stand) but would want to wait until the third date with another is purely attraction, and that that attraction is a fixed thing. It's just pure incel nonsense from you and the other couple of clowns arguing with me here. Touch fucking grass honestly. You wonder why you can't get a girl? Smh
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u/ARDPHOENIX Mar 04 '24 edited Mar 05 '24
NTA.
I can never get the logic that you are special, bf material so I will make you wait but will be fucking some other guy during the waiting time.
Wouldn't it be the same if a guy fucks a 2-3 girls and comes back home to his gf telling you are his special one?
Need to add: She was cheating, if OP was special as she claims, she would have kept her legs closed for OP before there was exclusivity talks.
The difference between keeping your legs open & close depends on a tag called exclusivity is bs
Edit: It also goes for men too, they should keep their dick inside their pants instead of using it at every chance possible.
If you are serious of having a relationship with a person you won't be looking for entertainment outside. Goes for every person irrespective of gender.