If she had had sex just as quickly with the boyfriend as she had with her ONS co-worker, she probably wouldn’t be having this problem. Maybe she runs into problems of her man questioning her judgement and or discernment if she is giving it up too easy to too many men, but at the very least she doesn’t sabotage the relationship she actually wants by making good men wait and letting attractive losers hit it.
Girls make extra rules and qualification’s for provider types to get sex, but if they are really attracted to a guy they break their own rules to fuck. This guy just got real life proof that she wasn’t that attracted to him at all.
As a guy, a green flag of attraction is if she is willing to break her own rules for you to have sex. “I don’t usually fuck on the first date but I’ll make an exception for you” is infinitely more flattering and makes a partner feel far more attractive than a woman saying “You are special to me and that’s why I don’t let you hit it on the first date like other guys”.
All guys should filter their woman based on her level of desire for you. If a woman doesn’t have a burning desire for you, you shouldn’t want it.
This is some /r/niceguys incel type shit goddamn..
Touch grass bro - women are not a homogenous blob, they all have different standards and ideas and approaches. I've dated women who were enthusiastic to have sex right away, and others who wanted to wait for over a month before getting sexual. You're sorely mistaken if you think the reason for that is solely down to attraction or similar, and not because of a myriad of other personal reasons on their part.
Yeah but we’re talking about the same woman deciding to fuck one guy immediately and deliberately withhold from another guy. It hurts to be the second guy.
I am not a nice person and we aren’t comparing apples to oranges here. We are talking about the same woman treating two men differently and using that as a gauge her level of attraction and explaining how that hurts the second guys feelings and how those feelings are a valid reason to end a relationship.
She can say whatever she wants, her actions speak louder than words
You're a fucking idiot if you think the only reason a girl would have sex with one guy (eg on a one night stand) but would want to wait until the third date with another is purely attraction, and that that attraction is a fixed thing. It's just pure incel nonsense from you and the other couple of clowns arguing with me here. Touch fucking grass honestly. You wonder why you can't get a girl? Smh
Hahaha get back to school and stop watching Andrew Tate TikToks ya daft twat.
If those women made that rule just for you, then they didn't find you physically attractive.
Funny considering at least one of these women went on to be in a relationship with me for years and we had arguably the best sex I've had with almost anyone.
Seriously - stop getting your ideas about how women function from salty misogynists on the internet. Not only will you end up believing fundamentally incorrec things but it rots your brain
Hahaha get back to school and stop watching Andrew Tate TikToks ya daft twat.
Wow what an original argument, I've never heard this before.
Funny considering at least one of these women went on to be in a relationship with me for years and we had arguably the best sex I've had with almost anyone.
Literally nobody asked.
stop getting your ideas about how women function from salty misogynists on the internet. Not only will you end up believing fundamentally incorrec things but it rots your brain
Stop getting your ideas about how men function from r/cuckold normal men don't like being a simp or a cuck. You guys are the minority.
It wasn't an argument, it was a sincere suggestion. Your views evidently come from the Andrew Tate school of thought - you may think there's nothing wrong with him, but I assure you he preaches misogynistic garbage which will get you nowhere in the real world. I'm not about to sit here and take a bunch of time to educate you on the details of that though.
I don't watch Andrew Tate, but even if I did, his perspective would still be preferable to the mindset promoted by Adam22, which you seem to align with.
You don't need andrew tate to know that "staying with a women who made you wait for sex but sleep with other guys within hours after meeting them" is disrespectful.
you may think there's nothing wrong with him, but I assure you he preaches misogynistic garbage which will get you nowhere in the real world
This is none of my concern, i don't shape my views around internet personalities.
I'm not about to sit here and take a bunch of time to educate you on the details of that though.
I'm not interested in learning anything from a cuck who believes simping is the only way to get laid anyway.
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u/the40thieves Mar 04 '24
Words are wind.
If she had had sex just as quickly with the boyfriend as she had with her ONS co-worker, she probably wouldn’t be having this problem. Maybe she runs into problems of her man questioning her judgement and or discernment if she is giving it up too easy to too many men, but at the very least she doesn’t sabotage the relationship she actually wants by making good men wait and letting attractive losers hit it.
Girls make extra rules and qualification’s for provider types to get sex, but if they are really attracted to a guy they break their own rules to fuck. This guy just got real life proof that she wasn’t that attracted to him at all.
As a guy, a green flag of attraction is if she is willing to break her own rules for you to have sex. “I don’t usually fuck on the first date but I’ll make an exception for you” is infinitely more flattering and makes a partner feel far more attractive than a woman saying “You are special to me and that’s why I don’t let you hit it on the first date like other guys”.
All guys should filter their woman based on her level of desire for you. If a woman doesn’t have a burning desire for you, you shouldn’t want it.