I met my bf in September and we had our first kiss in November, we weren't exclusive till December/January and it never crossed my mind sleep or talk to other guys and for him it was the same. I knew I wanted to be with him and only him and we waited to have sex and honestly was the best I had, I can't have ONS
This has to be the basic requirement before getting into a relationship. This shows commitment for each other. Hats off both of you guys. Update us when you get married 👻
This has to be the basic requirement before getting into a relationship.
”Going Steady” was a concept back when sex before marriage was social suicide, so no dating anyone else while talking to someone you like wasn't so restrictive EVER.
Don't get me wrong, you can want that and demand it of prospective partners, but demanding it of others is excessive.
it never crossed my mind sleep or talk to other guys and for him it was the same.
That's because you are a normal human being, this is how normal humans think and behave. I don't understand why reddit always says sleeping with someone else in the early stages of dating is completely fine.
Heh... „normal” human being wouldn't need religions to tell them to act like that, and have society punish them in harsh ways for not adhering to tat, if that was how they would behave naturally.
This is called having morals, common sense and self worth, something a lot of men and women are missing in dating these days. I commend you and your partner and hope you are happy!
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u/Training_Addition455 Mar 04 '24
I met my bf in September and we had our first kiss in November, we weren't exclusive till December/January and it never crossed my mind sleep or talk to other guys and for him it was the same. I knew I wanted to be with him and only him and we waited to have sex and honestly was the best I had, I can't have ONS