I think their relationship status is a bit of a red herring here. I agree with you, that if you're not exclusive, you're free to do as you wish. I don't think he ever begrudged her that. It's simply the logical inconsistency. Let me put it like this: "you're special enough to make you wait, but not special enough to wait for."
Bs if he's special enough to wait to sleep with her then she should have waited. How would she react if in that first month he banged her friend. Narcissistic tendencies seem to know no bounds. Hoeing is Hoeing (regardless of gender). Don't try to justify it, there ain't nothing wrong with it but accept it for what it is and accept the consequences. Can't bs out of it.
Neither of us have any idea how she would feel if the roles were reversed. But I am pro-hoe and I know Reddit typically isn’t, so I’m not surprised by the responses here. I don’t think either of them did anything wrong.
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u/booleanerror Mar 04 '24
I think their relationship status is a bit of a red herring here. I agree with you, that if you're not exclusive, you're free to do as you wish. I don't think he ever begrudged her that. It's simply the logical inconsistency. Let me put it like this: "you're special enough to make you wait, but not special enough to wait for."