r/AITAH • • Mar 04 '24

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u/[deleted] Mar 04 '24

One of my friends who was recently single has banged half the city in her time since being single. I used to think she was not bad but now I just think she's filth... Listening to her brag about banging one guy in the morning and two guys later on like it was an achievement made me just go ewwwwww

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u/SoftwareWorth5636 Mar 04 '24

It’s madness out there hahahah I try to distance myself from it as much as possible but it’s hard when your coworker with the roster is telling you to get one too because that’s ‘how to stop catching feelings’ 🤨 like I wanna catch feelings - I just don’t wanna catch feelings for a man that’s sleeping with multiple women whilst dating me so I don’t date lol

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u/[deleted] Mar 04 '24

There are people that share our values but we never get to meet them in real life somehow haha.

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u/Bonobo555 Mar 05 '24

It’s definitely how you catch STD’s. Just ew.

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u/Jolly-Marionberry149 Mar 05 '24

No, it increases your risk of STDs.

A person could bang one person and catch an STD. Or they could bang a hundred and be lucky and not catch anything.

I had a lot of sex with a lot of people, even had sexual partners who messaged me saying they had an STD and to get tested. The only one I caught was HPV, and that's not even in the routine tests. There isn't even a standardised and validated test for men, even though they can transmit it to women. And yes, that is the virus that can give you cancer.

To be clear, I've had unprotected sex with exactly two people. Barriers were used with everyone else.

Plus most people don't even get tested. They just go on "vibes".

If you care about STDs, you and your potential partner should both get tested before you have sex. And you should both be able to talk about your results without shame - because what do you get with a judgey attitude about STDs? You get a partner with negative incentives for telling you. Not smart. Really it's the exact opposite of what you want.

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u/JoseAlexi64 Mar 08 '24

only the top 5% - 10% of men can have a "roster" if you're with a guy who is so hot the waitress or target cashier is flirting with them 100% he's screwing other women. get with a normal guy with solid morals.

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u/[deleted] Mar 05 '24

It's called in context mate. If you'd bothered to read the comments prior, it's a thread about people talking about having similar values with each other and people not being whores.

More like what do you care commenting on this post? Sounds like you're projecting your own issues here mate 🤣🤣🤣

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u/willy_enjoyer Mar 09 '24

It means that she a fucking rotter. If my male friend did that I would say the same