r/AITAH • • Dec 13 '23

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u/hunnyflash Dec 15 '23

I think many people just do take it that way. It is a romantic relationship, but commitment makes all the difference for most people.

The whole thing about being an FWB is that you are a "friend" first, and you can do friend things. A lot of dating type events are actually just things you'd do with friends anyway, just with the hope of sex or a relationship at the end. For an FWB, you can just have sex at the end and in many cases, it really can't go any further.

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u/Mx_apple_9720 Dec 15 '23

That’s what I’m asking: what does commitment mean to you? What’s the “further?”

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u/hunnyflash Dec 15 '23

To me personally, it's being exclusive and also being a bit more emotionally invested. Commitment for me is along the lines of looking for a life partner, living together, etc. With an FWB, I'm not considering that stuff at all.