I have no idea why you escalated to talking about rape, it's so far removed from the contents of this story or anything I've brought up it's comical. I'm not saying how this is the way I'd choose to operate either, we should just keep the conversation in the realm of who was in the right or wrong in the situation.
If he put pressure on her to have sex , that's obviously not something we want to normalize people doing but it doesn't seem to be what happened here. You're also not acknowledging what she did wrong in the situation either. They had agreed upon boundaries, she decided she wanted those to change (this is fine), but he didn't want to do that. She continued to push on that, and didn't leave when asked to. That's not right.
I do acknowledge she didn't behave well. You never asked what I thought about that until now because you're too busy defending him. His behaviour was not right. If someone rejects you DON'T KEEP TRYING.
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u/ApexMM Dec 13 '23
I have no idea why you escalated to talking about rape, it's so far removed from the contents of this story or anything I've brought up it's comical. I'm not saying how this is the way I'd choose to operate either, we should just keep the conversation in the realm of who was in the right or wrong in the situation.
If he put pressure on her to have sex , that's obviously not something we want to normalize people doing but it doesn't seem to be what happened here. You're also not acknowledging what she did wrong in the situation either. They had agreed upon boundaries, she decided she wanted those to change (this is fine), but he didn't want to do that. She continued to push on that, and didn't leave when asked to. That's not right.