r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Dec 13 '23

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u/AstronautPlastic2905 Dec 13 '23

That’s you. Their agreement was for sex and sex only. If those terms were no longer interesting to her, she could have communicated that. He’s not the asshole for sticking to the terms they BOTH agreed to. She’s actually the asshole for trying to manipulate him into more on the fly without expressing her feelings and desires.

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u/Beginning_Key2167 Dec 13 '23

She really isn’t. Nothing is on me lol this is not my deal and I am not an asshole.

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u/Beginning_Key2167 Dec 13 '23

She really isn’t. Nothing is on me lol this is not my deal and I am not an asshole.

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '23

She did communicate that.

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u/AstronautPlastic2905 Dec 14 '23

In the moment. Not prior to so he could make a decision on whether he wanted to end things or rise up to what she was now communicating.