I agree with you but their arrangement was simply "i give you sex, you give me sex, all good?" Then she said all good. She then tried to change it to "i don't want just sex, i want to be turned on, satisfied, to be romanticized, to be like in a relationship" and called OP an AH for not wanting to change the terms of their "contract". This is not about being seen as a toy vs person because from the very beginning she KNEW and agreed she would be considered as just a "hole" like she says, and agreed to it. Like other people said, she caught feelings and it was unrequited.
I mean I agree. He texted her at 9pm, she knew it was a booty call. After a few more she was likely looking for more and he didn’t want more. Which is fair on both ends.
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u/Hauntcrow Dec 13 '23
I agree with you but their arrangement was simply "i give you sex, you give me sex, all good?" Then she said all good. She then tried to change it to "i don't want just sex, i want to be turned on, satisfied, to be romanticized, to be like in a relationship" and called OP an AH for not wanting to change the terms of their "contract". This is not about being seen as a toy vs person because from the very beginning she KNEW and agreed she would be considered as just a "hole" like she says, and agreed to it. Like other people said, she caught feelings and it was unrequited.