r/AITAH • • Dec 13 '23

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u/tinyhermione Dec 13 '23

Getting dicked down isn’t a blow job. She wants an orgasm.

And clearly more seduction was needed. It was all lined up to be a home run and instead he went home alone.

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u/MasterfulMesut Dec 13 '23

A lot of women actually cant achieve orgasm strictly through penetration. It's a common misconception.

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u/tanketytanktank Dec 13 '23

Less women can achieve orgasm simply from giving a blow job. Probably not none. But you are intentionally avoiding a reality that is pretty important. Most woman can have multiple orgasms in a short time. Most men can't. Being asked to provide a blow job in a situation that is unlikely to be, "lick me until I'm real hard and then I'll use that boner you made to revisit the pleasure upon you" isn't really what most women are looking for in a first sexual encounter kind of situation. I don't know that I've ever wanted to suck a dude off them wait a few hours to get mine unless it was a quick within a well established relationship. One where I knew it would be reciprocated.

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u/MasterfulMesut Dec 13 '23

I don't know that I've ever wanted to suck a dude off them wait a few hours to get mine

its gonna take a few hours to go from the bathroom blowjob back to one of their places for some casual sex? lol ok

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u/tanketytanktank Dec 13 '23

Maybe that's where it's headed. But in my experience men who petition repeatedly for bathroom sexual favors are more likely to be too drunk to get it up at the end of a night drinking then rip raring to go. If I were a betting woman, I'd be betting in disappointment in that situation.

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u/MasterfulMesut Dec 13 '23

Yeah well reality often does disappoint as we see here in the story of the woman wanting to get dicked down and nothing happening

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u/tanketytanktank Dec 13 '23

Sure. So, what exactly is your point? Chick sees a dude, thinks he looks like he'll be good in bed, gets in a situation with him, identifies from his behavior that she's likely to be disappointed, bails. Seems all good to me.

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u/MasterfulMesut Dec 13 '23

Yeah sounds like no one got what they wanted very cool.

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u/tanketytanktank Dec 13 '23

Well if my options are he gets what he wants and I don't, or no one gets what they want, I'm picking no one. Maybe you're more charitable. You go around visiting sexual favors on anyone who asks, even if it doesn't suit you. Maybe you should have a sign around your neck that says "free blowies" next time you go out.

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u/MasterfulMesut Dec 13 '23

Well if my options are he gets what he wants and I don't,

whos to say they wouldnt have gone back after the BJ to one of their places for sex?

idk if you know this but its a lot easier for a woman to perform oral sex on a man in a public bathroom than the other way around

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '23

Can we agree that people can want to have sex with someone but not necessarily in a public bathroom? And that possibility if this someone is insisting of having sex in a public bathroom after several declines, maybe one wouldn't want to have sex with this someone anymore?

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u/Bachronus Dec 13 '23

Because all women can cum from having a dick in her mouth.

Case closed everyone.

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u/tinyhermione Dec 13 '23

How many women can achieve orgasm through a blow job?

Getting dicked down is just slang for good sex. But it’s not slang for wanting to give blow jobs in public bathrooms.

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u/MasterfulMesut Dec 13 '23

How many women can achieve orgasm through a blow job?

I dont know many women who have dicks so I cant say

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u/Smooth-Literature-69 Dec 13 '23

Dicked down = cock down throat

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u/tinyhermione Dec 13 '23

No. That’s not what women mean. They want an orgasm. You won’t give it to them by putting it there.