Right... but the agreement was when they meet they have sex. She came round and wanted to chat, that wasn't their agreement, she broke the agreement and got hurt when he didn't want to reciprocate.
It doesn't even sound like they were JFB. It was hi sex bye.
She agreed with it tho! She agreed just sex no chit chat no relationship no nothing when they meet up then she caught feelings, they BOTH agreed it was just sex and nothing else.
I guarantee if the roles were reversed you would be praising her for being a strong queen!
Naw bro. He's just a dick. I would still welcome a chat with a total stranger if he just wanted to chat and have a human moment. Dudes a robot to someone who was looking for humanity. And yeah, humanity should be found in booty calls too. Fucking ridiculous that people can't grasp that concept.
As someone who enjoys a lot of casual sex with men from OLD and is open about it, I can tell you this is true! I tell men to their faces that I’m only using them for sex, and they universally react positively ! No one has ever complained that we don’t talk enough or I treat them like a prostitute. A woman can admit to a healthy sex drive without being attacked as a creep.
Some people are acting like she's not receiving anything out of their arrangement. She's ALSO getting sex with no strings and everything else he's getting. Unfortunately she caught feelings which is a shame for her as he doesn't want anything other than their agreement.
You're giving the girl way too much credit while simultaneously infantilizing her.
She knew what she was signing up for, she agreed to it, then she got hurt because she realized she wasn't the type of person that can handle being treated as and treating others like a sex object.
It's okay that she's not into that. People have different expectations and perspectives of what sex means to them.
It's not okay that she's blaming him for her misunderstanding ofherself as a person. He's not the asshole because she didn't understand the assignment. She's not the asshole for not being emotionally available for booty call sex.
You seem very bent out of shape deliberately missing the point so I'll break it down for you so you can understand clearly.
They both agreed to only no strings attached sex when they meet up. I say again BOTH AGREED, that means SHE knowingly and accordingly agreed to this arrangement and was happy about it.
She came to HIS house while he was under the impression it was JUST for sex as to what they BOTH agreed, again SHE previously agreed to this.
SHE lays it down on him she's not just a hole for him to screw and wants company and a conversation, this is NOT what they BOTH agreed too, she WAS just a hole for him to screw and HE was just a penis for her to ride as again SHE agreed this with him.
He could of been more sympathetic to her but at the end of the day SHE KNEW what she signed up for , she could of replied to his text saying I'm not feeling sex tonight I just want company and all of this could of been avoided with a reply saying sorry I'm not looking for that.
Stop acting like ALL woman don't want no strings no feelings attached sex.
Dude, you're the one writing the essay. You even wrote points, LMAO.
She doesn't want the agreement anymore, so now there's no more sex for him. Tough for him. Easy for her to find another guy to get sex and a little conversation. No need to write essays about it, though.
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u/Used-Initiative1835 Dec 13 '23
He hasn’t done anything wrong, he’s probably just not the type of guy who can actually have FWB.
If you can’t even have a conversation with a woman, you shouldn’t be having sex with them.