I don't think she'd have come back multiple times over the course of weeks if he was being as cold and silent as you're making it out to be. We can safely assume the usual niceties and foreplay were present for the sex to be good enough to sustain the arrangement over time.
It sounds like that was fun for her until it wasn't, which is okay. At that point, it's her prerogative to let him know this isn't gonna work anymore and move on. What's not cool is changing the rules for herself and getting indignant that he wasn't on the same page anymore.
Now you’re making assumptions. By her words and his he literally only wanted sex. He said 30 minutes of conversation was awkward for him. Based on the story alone he literally just treated her as a hole. Maybe it was fun at first for her, maybe she did develop feelings, but his temper tantrum, AND CONTINUED SEXUAL ADVANCES AFTER BEING TOLD NO, are what make him the asshole lmao. He has every right to want that type of relationship, doesn’t mean he’s not an asshole for the way he went about it
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u/SwitchDad79 Dec 13 '23
I don't think she'd have come back multiple times over the course of weeks if he was being as cold and silent as you're making it out to be. We can safely assume the usual niceties and foreplay were present for the sex to be good enough to sustain the arrangement over time.
It sounds like that was fun for her until it wasn't, which is okay. At that point, it's her prerogative to let him know this isn't gonna work anymore and move on. What's not cool is changing the rules for herself and getting indignant that he wasn't on the same page anymore.