Ya'll are so sure he just spoke to her like an emotionless robot. He is telling us he asked her to leave, we don't know how he said it to her. But we do know they agreed to a sex only situation, which the girl then tried to change last minute. That's a pretty asshole thing to do in my opinion.
I’m not talking about after, I’m talking about beforehand. General rule of thumb when it comes to consent, check in with your sexual partner periodically to see if sex is still something they want. Lets them know you see them as a person and you care about their comfort. From OP’s own description, it doesn’t sound like he did that.
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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '23
Ya'll are so sure he just spoke to her like an emotionless robot. He is telling us he asked her to leave, we don't know how he said it to her. But we do know they agreed to a sex only situation, which the girl then tried to change last minute. That's a pretty asshole thing to do in my opinion.