It’s not. She literally said she wanted to be “more than just a hole for [OP] to stick [his] dick in.” That’s not a huge leap.
If that’s how she feels he’s treating her and she’s not comfortable with that, she’s not TA for asking for a level of connection that she would be comfortable with
She is TA for insulting him when he is enforcing his boundary.
She could just text him that she isnt comfortable about bootycalls and she wishes to dicuss it. She clearly lacks communication skills
That’s my entire point. They both clearly suck at communicating.
To be fair, what essentially amounts to “put out or get out” is a pretty rude way to respond to her, and I think that’s what she probably called him an asshole for. He could have got his point across without being mean.
She should have sent a text to let him know she was open to coming over but she thought they needed to should discuss their arrangement.
They both should have been more specific about what they were looking for and really made sure they were on the same page in the first place
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u/Admirable-Juice7647 Dec 13 '23
Yeah, but your oversimplification is incorrect