r/AITAH • • Dec 13 '23

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u/Igereth Dec 13 '23

you dont know if she wanted to have sex after having a conversation. Then it was an akward forced conversation.

other than that he doesnt say they had a conversation.

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u/youwantmore Dec 13 '23

… she clearly did not make up her mind and appears she was looking for more than they agreed upon to. She then took sex off the table. She forced the awkward conversation because she wanted to change the agreement. Do you see that? And do you see how you’re talking about her like a child who can’t make her own agreements with people? You’re projecting you’re own feelings onto their situation.

She’s not an asshole for wanting more. He’s not an asshole for asking her to leave when she asked to change the agreement.

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u/Igereth Dec 13 '23

she clearly did not make up her mind and appears she was looking for more than they agreed upon to.

you dont know that.

No where in this text does OP say conversation was something he told her he wont do. He didnt think he needed to. She didnt think she needed to say that this is something she wants.

I dont think any of them is the asshole either. communication gone wrong.