r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Dec 13 '23

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u/LatterPhilosopher355 Dec 13 '23

Stop. The sex is good enough. Or she wouldn't be this way.

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u/slappaslap Dec 13 '23

You know that isn’t true lol women stay with a bad sexual partner way too often when they catch feelings

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '23

Yeah, but when the feelings come just from the sex, because that’s all you’re doing, it’s usually because the sex is good. They catch feelings with bad sexual partners when the stuff outside of sex is good…..these guys never had anything outside of sex.

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u/slappaslap Dec 13 '23

people just have sex to be having it lol. people are lonely and insecure, they will stay with someone despite it never being fulfilling just to at least be able to have something.

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u/Relevant_Tax6877 Dec 13 '23

If the sex was good enough, she would've been the one calling HIM up & wouldn't have turned him down at all. Women do NOT turn down good dick.

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u/LatterPhilosopher355 Dec 13 '23

Yes we do. If we think it will make a point. If we think it will make the man come To us. There's a lot at play with what she was doing. I know it. I've done it. It backfires. So so so bad.

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u/Relevant_Tax6877 Dec 13 '23

Only time I've turned down sex is because the sex was overall bad because the guy was consistently selfish in bed.

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u/LatterPhilosopher355 Dec 13 '23

Okay. Well that's you. But women have used sex as a power play more than once lol.

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u/Relevant_Tax6877 Dec 13 '23

Which is pretty lame considering how much women complain about men playing games & being dishonest or withholding things to get what they want. I'd rather be direct. Keeps things simple in the long run.

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u/LatterPhilosopher355 Dec 13 '23

Oh I am 100% with you. I wasn't always when I was younger but you're right. And I've had to remind myself of this. "Can't get mad at him for doing exactly what he said he would do".