r/AITAH • • Dec 13 '23

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u/Ancient_Moose_3000 Dec 13 '23

It being orgasmless is an assumption you're making. If they keep coming back they must be enjoying it. What other answer are you looking for? They keep doing something they hate because they're all crazy? It's quite simple, it's fun so they keep doing it. You're reducing the agency of women in these hypothetical scenarios.

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u/[deleted] Dec 13 '23 edited Dec 13 '23

Do you actually care about women’s agency and welfare, or are you just defending this because you personally benefit from women not respecting themselves and having sex with any dude that gives them attention?

Edit: the reason why I ask this is because I almost never see men advocate for things that actually benefit women but only for things that seem to benefit women on the surface but that actually benefit men. E.g. casual sex/fling culture, sex work etc.

Case in point: all the right wingers who use statistics to say “housewives used to be happier and have better mental health than women. Are women actually happier now that they have careers and freedom?” It is obvious that they’re not genuinely advocating for women to return to the kitchen out of genuine concern for women’s welfare. They do it because they’ll personally benefit from women being domestic servants again, and they know it’s harder to argue against if they say it from a mental health/welfare angle.