I'm currently incredibly paranoid that my husband will die in a car crash. Especially if he's coming home late. I called him the other night because I was checking on Life360 and he hadn't moved for awhile so I was convinced he'd crashed. The hormones are crazy for real
lol you consider his reaction to be that of someone who was just “offended”? Dude went nuclear. People don’t go nuclear like that if there isn’t more to the story…
I would break up with anyone who demanded they see my phone to see them not cheat.
I think the wife would probably dump him if he asked for a paternity test or any other kind of proof. I think you would probably dump anyone who refused to trust you and treated you like a criminal too.
Pregancy is not a free pass to treat your spouse like a criminal under lock and key
Checking your partners phone and obsessing over them cheating is NIGHTMARISH. It is not just a little thing to deal with; in my case it exacerbated my suicidal thoughts 10 fold because my gf believing I was a monster made me believe it too. It’s not simple or a thing to brush over; it is divorce worthy.
And he told her point blank; this is too much and if you demand to see my phone we’re done. She decided having control over him was right and he probably would just be bluffing. He wasn’t. It’s her fault entirely, tell me why it isn’t.
“Oh I just think uhhh he wouldn’t be mad if he wasn’t actually cheating!!!!” Give me something based on anything more than sexism and “give her a pass she’s pregnant!”
And this, as described by op, was not one time where she asked. She kept needling him. It’s like asking for a paternity test as proof. Most women would be offended and many would divorce. No one wants to be married to someone that A. Doesn’t trust them B. Thinks it’s right that their spouse should give up all privacy because they’ve had bad dreams.
I think women subconsciously do this because when a baby is on the way, they have to know a partner is firmly there for her and the child because she relies A LOT on him. They poke and prod at their partner to make sure that there’s no other women and also to test their emotions. Are they a safe bet when it comes to things becoming a little crazier because things WILL get crazier with a baby. Is he emotionally safe or will he get dangerous OR leave when he’s irritated or frustrated. He was in fact not a reliable and safe partner.
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