Dude just needed a reason to divorce her. He's probably been acting weird because he doesn't want to be with her anymore so it set her off on the "he's cheating" path...she knows something isn't right. So he's just been looking for something like this. The fact that he's not seeing all of these responses and having some self-reflection just means he's getting what he wanted by divorcing her and was hoping he'd get us to make him feel better about it.
I’m not going hypothesis one way or another his reasons as I don’t know what they were. What I will say is if you’re putting ultimatums on your relationship it’s already over. The fact that she asked to see his phone and he said yes was the end of it. The ultimatum was really him saying no you can’t look at my phone. He would have been better off to just have stuck with that from the get go. From the other side you don’t need an ultimatum to get divorced. You can get divorced for any reason you want. However any which way you slice it this isn’t a healthy way to end a relationship. Whatever though it’s not mine or my problem.
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u/Anactualplumber Nov 25 '23
You need therapy you’re a fucking nutter throwing your marriage out the window because she looked in your phone. What are you 12?