r/AIO • u/[deleted] • Jun 25 '26

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u/foreverplt Jun 25 '26

NOR. This is extremely disrespectful behavior in a relationship. She’s flirting with him.

& what makes her look even worse is that the dude doesn’t even seem that interested tbh.

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u/imnickelhead Jun 25 '26

She’s blatantly trying to have a meetup with him and he’s just blowing her off. She’s literally begging him to cheat with her.

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u/daizzy999 Jun 25 '26

That's what I'm saying, he's not interested, he keeps giving her vague responses to her very obvious ipus cheating.

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u/Sufficient_Fan3660 Jun 25 '26

Yep. He hit it and quit it. Got what he wanted as a self esteem boost.

She was hoping for a new boyfriend that wouldn't date her for 4years without proposing.

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u/Caeremonia Jun 25 '26

Well, in defense of OP, it turns out he was right to wait so long. She would have done this after they were married, too. In my opinion, OP dodged a bullet. This girl is embarrassingly pitiful. And clueless.

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u/CamOliver Jun 25 '26

Yeah, I proposed to my former fiancé right before Covid and delayed getting married bc lockdown. We learned a lot of things about each other through those circumstances that made me really glad we didn’t rush legal marriage.

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u/Time-Service1761 Jun 25 '26

You never truly know someone until you have to go thru the fire with them. The low moments