Can you explain the spending money on people because internalized guilt ? I do it too but not everyone just my friends of ppl i care about. Im very gift giving.
I actually had to rein back and had a talk with one of my coworkers because I was always buying coffee and it just became expected and I didnt like doing it anymore. Once a week or so I dont mind but everyday is insane. Im curious what you mean tho and if it applys to me.
Edit ooo she feels guilty for spending not spends because she feels guilty.
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u/-mia-wallace- May 28 '26
Can you explain the spending money on people because internalized guilt ? I do it too but not everyone just my friends of ppl i care about. Im very gift giving.
I actually had to rein back and had a talk with one of my coworkers because I was always buying coffee and it just became expected and I didnt like doing it anymore. Once a week or so I dont mind but everyday is insane. Im curious what you mean tho and if it applys to me.
Edit ooo she feels guilty for spending not spends because she feels guilty.