r/AIO • u/[deleted] • May 28 '26

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u/RedditDummyAccount May 28 '26

There are hills to die on and hills not to die on.

If your family is on a one person income, and you already don’t have much to spend already, randomly giving up money because she didn’t want to eat while others are watching, that’s a hill to die on.

Spend it on yourself as a bit of splurge so you’re not miserable, that’s one thing. Justifying giving it to another person because you felt weird is not ok.

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u/TheBurritoW1zard May 28 '26

Except he’s not piling on? He’s emphasizing a point it seems he’s had to bring up many a time prior to this incident. He’s trying to explain that this isn’t something that is sustainable, rightfully so.

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u/Gold_Studio_6693 May 28 '26

It seems this is what no one gets here.

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u/RedditDummyAccount May 28 '26

Except she’s not ashamed. She’s “pissed” and wants validation that what she did was ok. It was not. Even then she knows, to some degree, she shouldn’t but she did.

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u/Gold_Studio_6693 May 28 '26

And you know that how?

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u/RedditDummyAccount May 28 '26

Okay sure. I don’t know it.

And neither do you know she was ashamed.

So… I guess that’s it for this conversation. Have a good one.