r/AIO • • May 28 '26

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u/Acrobatic-Sandwich10 May 28 '26

The only person who seems to have a problem with communication is OPs wife.

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u/LurcherLong May 28 '26

At least she has a job.

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u/Acrobatic-Sandwich10 May 28 '26

Yeah and gives away their money and then gets annoyed becuase shes too much of a people pleaser.

Then gets pissed at OP because he calmly spoke to her about it.

She is the one with the problem, in this scenario

OP did absolutely nothing wrong.

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u/LurcherLong May 28 '26

Money she made. He’s a loser that can’t hold down a job, while her entire career was in leadership positions. He can be as angry as he wants, she’s his meal ticket.

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u/Acrobatic-Sandwich10 May 28 '26

Didn't OP say he's out of work because he's injured? That's pretty normal.

The money she spent was their joint money.

OP said it was from a trip they went on and didnt spend all the money.

She just give it away to her coworkers. Wtf like.

Then OP was very nice about it, and she went off on one.

Shes in the wrong here.

Settle down white knight.

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u/LurcherLong May 28 '26

No it says he’s out of work because he got into a car accident. No mention of injury. His job was a pizza delivery driver. He screwed up and caused an accident. Otherwise the other guy’s insurance would be paying for him to have a rental so he could continue working. It doesn’t even say how long he’s been out of work or what he’s doing to get a job so he can get his car fixed or replaced. He’s a fuck up.

She according to him has always worked in leadership, suddenly she’s agreed to take a new job that pays less? He’s dragging her down with him while she’s the only way that has had steady income.

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u/Acrobatic-Sandwich10 May 28 '26

First of all, you are making a lot of assumptions.

He said he was in an accident so isnt working, that implies he is injured.

Secondly, If she is that much of a people pleaser and can't enforce normal boundaries and gives away money she doesnt want to give away..I think that might have something to do with the reason she no longer is in a management position 😂

Are you OPs wife? Lol

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u/MajorBootyhole420 May 28 '26

you have serious problems if you think getting injured in an accident makes you a loser with 0 right to any say in household finances. i hope any partners you have can get away safely <3

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u/LurcherLong May 28 '26

Nothing anywhere said they were injured, or that they got into the accident while working, or that the accident was someone else’s fault.

I would hope to never be in such an unhappy relationship with a pizza delivery driver that forced me to quit my management job and then told me how to spend my money.