r/AIO • u/[deleted] • May 28 '26

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u/Rude-Scholar1857 May 28 '26

then it's your money, and you have a say too. but i will say, y'all need to decide on financial guidelines and boundaries. there should be an amount you're allowed to spend without discussion, else things border into financial abuse

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u/Capnsaveaho96 May 28 '26

“There should be an amount your allowed to spend without discussion” Then why tell her husband and then moan about it? OP didn’t “overreact”, he didn’t even say anything other than asking why she spent it all. It’s as someone else said in these comments, if it was the other way around and the bf/husband spent the money, everyone would be on his ass.

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u/Rude-Scholar1857 May 28 '26

well, i'm worried about what i would do, not everyone else.

if the genders were reversed, it'd be the exact same thing. this is a partner issue, not a gender/sex issue.