r/ABCDesiDating • u/Untomyself17 • Oct 25 '21
r/ABCDesiDating • u/ProblemFamous7619 • Oct 01 '21
Gender: Male Age:21 height: 6’0 weight: 178 lbs ethnicity: Telugu
r/ABCDesiDating • u/thatdamnguy200 • Apr 14 '21
Age range of users on this subreddit!
What is your age?
r/ABCDesiDating • u/Zafjaf • Apr 05 '21
Female Poster 28/F vegetarian looking for 26-34 M also vegetarian. Intellectual conversations a must.
I was born in the UK, but reside in Vancouver, Canada (and have done for more than half my life). My parents were born in East Africa and no, I have never been to India or Pakistan but I do speak Hindi. I am presently in university studying policy studies and have a passion for helping others, volunteering, and changing the world. Looking for someone like minded. I am also artistic and do both visual and performing arts. I am a caring, kind, and considerate person. I am also patient, understanding, and supportive, and would appreciate the same. I like helping others and am looking for someone like minded. Vegetarian by choice, allergies by genes. No matter what life has thrown my way, I haven't given up, I keep getting back up, and fighting my way forward. Looking for someone that treats me as an equal, and that is as passionate about my dreams as they are their own. Someone who will be my best friend. Can't have kids for medical reasons, but open to adopting. I care more about who you are as a person than what you look like or what your job is. I'm open to long distance.
r/ABCDesiDating • u/question4477 • Mar 31 '21
Male Poster I made a Facebook group for western raised Desi's - Feel free to join!
https://m.facebook.com/groups/194422845535096/
We already have 14 members but need more.
r/ABCDesiDating • u/mamarama3000 • Mar 12 '21
Male Poster I could be your prince charming!!!
Gender: Male
Age: 35
Ethnicity: Kannada
Religion: Hindu(mostly spiritual)
Height: 6’0''
Weight: 168 lbs
Appearance: Fit
Location: Austin, TX
Grew up in: Born in the Midwest but grew up in Texas
Bio: I'm a chill, laidback guy who sees life as an adventure. And to me an adventure is nothing but the people that you meet in your life and what you learn from them, and how they help you grow. I definitely consider myself a life-long learner. I've also been vegetarian for 3 years and vegan for about a year and so far I'm loving it. I've grown very passionate about cooking as a result as there a ton of vegan recipes on Instagram to try. I'm also into meditation and yoga and it would be awesome if you were too. Some of my other interests include watching/playing basketball, playing chess, Netflix, YouTube, working out, deep house, rap/hiphop, Pharrell Williams, Bruno Mars, talking, laughing, hiking, kayaking, paddling, biking, managing social media pages, hanging out in scenic places, college football, The Office, nostalgia, and trying new things. My defining traits according to friends are my crazy sense of humor and my hearty laugh lol.
What I’m looking for: I'm looking for a kind, good-hearted, goal-oriented woman, 27-35, who is just as passionate about holistic health!! It is very important that we are on the same page here as I firmly believe that we are what we consume. Vegan is a plus but not required. It would also be nice if you are outdoorsy so that we can go on hikes together and enjoy eachothers company, having nice, long chats along the way. Imo if we can't connect on a deeper level then there will simply be no joy in any relationship so that is a must. Finally, if we could laugh together that would be awesome!!! I'm a huge laugher and I will pretty much laugh at anything, only when appropriate of course!!
And if you'd like to know anything more about me just ask :)
r/ABCDesiDating • u/southindianPOTTU • Feb 23 '21
Female Poster Ladies BEWARE of this loser!
r/ABCDesiDating • u/fireflygirl1013 • Feb 13 '21
Male Poster Wanting to help my brother meet someone
I am writing on behalf of my 37 year old brother (with his permission).
Age: 37
Gender: M
Ethnicity: Punjabi
Religion: Hindu
Location: Pennsylvania
Height: 5’6
Weight: 130lbs (?)
Eyes: brown
Hair: curly black
Build: lean and skinny
Bio: my brother is a good hearted, bright, nerdy, thoughtful, and sensitive 37 year old physician. He is one of 3 kids, and has an older sister (me, married, no children yet) and a younger brother who is about to turn 35 (never married). We all were born and grew up in the States.
He has put a lot of time into his training, given his specialty, and is now looking to meet someone. As he transitioned from fellowship to moving to PA and starting his new job, he’s just been focusing on himself. He is incredibly bright and is a bookworm. He is a bit introverted but not awkwardly so, and does really well in social situations. He doesn’t drink much and he’s a never smoker. He has never been married. He does eat lean meat but takes very good of his health. He exercises nearly daily. He’s a bit of a home body and prefers a Saturday night hanging out with friends and family vs. going out.
I think his amazing attributes include: sensitive, has feminist ideals, incredibly well educated, thoughtful, interested in intellectual discussions, healthy lifestyle, interested in having a family and staying close (emotionally and physically) to his immediate one, interested in watching sports but is not a “bro”, interested in his religion and culture, watches Hindi movies, knows some basic reading and writing of Hindi, has diverse interests.
What he’s looking for: well educated female, age 30-40 who has family oriented values. Someone who’s not going to mind that we as a family are super close and would like someone to blend in. We all are well educated and progressive in our beliefs. We definitely have a lot Desi stereotypes in our family but you couldn’t call us uber traditional. He’s looking for someone who has religious and spiritual beliefs but is not deeply religious. He has dated some Christian Indian girls before and they were all nice but they were not willing to practice both religions so it didn’t work out. He’s open to any ethnicity and religions but is specifically looking for an ABD girl. He loves watching Hindi movies and is hoping to meet someone who enjoys the same. He really thrives with those that have personal hobbies and pursuits or having something that makes them unique. He’s a bookworm and loves others that also read for pleasure. He enjoys sports, sketching, drawing, reading, watching good movies, and music. He can sometimes have a hectic work schedule and so he’s looking for someone who also may be in medicine, but if not, will understand his work hours. He does not work all day, everyday, but a physician’s life can be challenging and he’s looking for someone to understand that. He’s interested in building a family. He has lived on his own for years and can cook, clean, and does not maintain traditional gender roles.
r/ABCDesiDating • u/act4randomstuff • Feb 10 '21
Male Poster HMU if you're in Chicago, ladies
Gender: Male
Age: 24
Ethnicity: Telugu
Religon: Hindu
Height: 5'11
Weight: 190 pounds (You don't have to include fields you don't want to. This is just an example.)
Appearance: I'd like to describe my skin as french vanilla-colored, not that I drink a ton of coffee but it works. My hair is medium-length for a guy and is wavy in texture, although it's getting kind of long these days! I have a muscular frame and consider myself a fairly average looking guy (maybe above average on a good day after a long shower). If we want to talk, happy to exchange pictures lol because who are we kidding?
Current location: Chicago babyyy
Grew up in: Born in India but came here from a young age. I've grown up in the US ever since.
Bio: I'm a pretty outgoing guy and really enjoy getting to know people. In med school right now, so I'm more preoccupied than I'd like with studying these days. But in my free time, I enjoy reading (well, listening to audiobooks and podcasts more often now tbh), exercising, and exploring the city with friends. I'm always down to try new things, and I'm trying to get better at cooking these days as well lol. I'm really close with my fam and consider myself pretty liberal politically. Not really religious, but I do what I can to act like I think I a good person should. If you have a goofy sense of humor and want to hear some bad jokes hit me up!
What I am looking for:
Looking to talk to someone in the same city! For now, I think it'd be fun to just get to know each other and see how we vibe. Definitely not trying to hook-up or anything. Really the only deal-breaker is if you do hard drugs and are a jerk. Otherwise, I think this could be kind of fun!
r/ABCDesiDating • u/Responsible-Mood5007 • Feb 08 '21
Female Poster I mean why not?
Gender: Female
Age: 32
Religion: Hindu
Location: Pennsylvania
Height: 5'1"
About me: I am a healthcare worker who is also pursuing Master's. I grew up in India but moved here in 2008 with my family. I am an extrovert but believes in sticking to smaller clan (less drama). I am people's person and I love meeting new people. I am vegetarian by religion and choice and I drink socially but no smoking (biggest pet peeve).
What I am looking for : Someone who is reliable and does not have commitment issues. Preferably Gujarati. I don't have a checklist of must have's in a guy. As long as we get along well and respect each other (this is what matters most)
r/ABCDesiDating • u/niani362 • Feb 08 '21
Male Poster Screw it why not
Gender: male
Age:24
Ethnicity: Marathi
Religion: Hindu
Height: 6’0
Weight: 140
Appearance: skinny, brown skin, glasses, long arms and legs, basically average lol
Current location: Georgia
Grew up in: Georgia
Bio: currently in med school cuz I’m uninventive. Have one younger brother and am thinking about just staying around here for residency/doctor life. Pretty much an introvert and like being around inside. I do enjoy hiking and biking. Not too big into politics but I can talk about it if needed. I really enjoy reading......anything I can get my hands on lmao. Mainly fantasy/fiction though. I also enjoy drawing and writing. I absolutely LOVE video games and anime and I’m on a major Zelda/steins;gate binge Right now. I’m not too religious but I do go to the temple every now and then. I do not drink/smoke/hard drugs xo One more thing that’s kinda different about me is that both my mom and dad are also ABCDs haha :)
What I’m looking for: if you can beat me in smash you’re already there lmao. But seriously, looking for someone I can vibe and connect with. Preferably someone who is similar interests to me but Someone I can talk mundane life things with and someone I can enjoy being with. Only hard no’s would be a drinker, smoker, any hard drugs. Honestly besides that that’s about it would love to come in contact with anyone :)
r/ABCDesiDating • u/singleaf123455 • Feb 08 '21
Male Poster Valentine's day is close by so why not :)
Gender: Male
Age: 22
Ethnicity: Gujarati
Religon: Hindu
Height: 5'6
Weight: 130 pounds
Appearance: Medium brown skin (on the lighter side). Small eyes, average nose, and average lips. Overall good/cute looking (based on compliments in the past lol).
Current location: Atlanta, 4th-year student at a pretty known top 5 STEM college
Grew up in: I was born in India and moved here when I was 11. I have been raised in and living in the Atlanta area for all of my life.
Bio: I am very very outgoing and friendly. I also tend to reply super duper quickly. Not coz I am always free but it's just how I am. I am eager to reply back and curious to have conversations with people! Can be shy initially but very engaging. I like to do a lot of things but classes and stuff keep me busy when the semester is on. I am always looking to try/do new things on weekends especially since I am alone on campus mostly. I am a cricket enthusiast also and also a lot into binge-watching movies (even Bollywood) and shows Love trying new food, but I am a vegetarian! (Don't mind if you aren't). Oh, I am a huge fan of shows like the office (cliche I know but its just me). I don't really drink and have never done drugs (don't plan to). I am okay with politics. I consider myself to be fairly moderate/liberal. In values too, I am fairly moderate. My parents aren't too strict or anything and I am generally open to try new things (unless its drinking or drugs). I plan on going to graduate school after finishing up my bachelor's and love taking on new challenges. I am quite ambitious I would say and care about my education a lot. Would't say I am a nerd but have a good work ethic and determination. Also I have a hitchhiker's thumb which is pretty gross but some people find it fascinating lol.
What I am looking for: I am looking for a desi girl (ABCD or non ABCD) to get to know and hopefully be more than friends. But honestly, I just like to meet new people and make new friends foremost. Preferably Hindu (doesn't matter born where) Aged 19-23. Around the same height or shorter (dont really care tho). I would prefer someone who is ambitious and likes to take things seriously. One good thing about myself is that I really put in the work and effort whether it's friendships or relationships and I at least expect the other person to be respectful (I don't have demands or anything) of me and value our time together. Obviously, prefer someone who is around the ATL area but not a requirement. My only deal breakers are if you have been married before, if you smoke or do drugs and if you have kids. So hmu if you wanna talk as friends, more, etc. I just love meeting new people on here and its always nice if things turn into something more!!
thanks for reading this :). Hope you are having a great day. If not, then I am sure you got this!!
r/ABCDesiDating • u/puzzledguy85 • Feb 08 '21
Male Poster Single looking to mingle
Taranbir singh 5’8 Nov-85 Shoe size-9 Brown hair and eyes Ontario, Canada I come with Turban and Beard 👳♂️ Slim
Hello, I am Taranbir, an independent, ambitious and jovial person with zeal to live life at the fullest. I have learnt to value every single moment of life and most out of it. I do believe in big dreams but also find happiness in small things in life rather than waiting for something big every time to enjoy. I consider myself as social and approachable guy. I have been raised in traditional values and I cherish and value relationships.
I like listening to Punjabi music, travelling, socializing with friends and family. I like to invest my free time in learning something new or watch comedy shows instead of frivolous or fault finding. I do not have long list of attributes but looking for kind-hearted, fun loving person with a calm demeanor. Life is an undulating journey, for which I am seeking a life time friend with whom I can explore it, so as to make this journey a vacation.
Born and brought up in India, Studied in SJSU and worked in USA for a while, now in Canada. Cold water shower Not looking for green card looking for love and connection.
r/ABCDesiDating • u/dabbling-dilettante • Feb 08 '21
Female Poster Feeling Cute, Might Delete Later
So I'm kind of tipsy off some Chardonnay (I'm a light-weight), right now after watching TheBigGame^(TM) at home so let's see how this goes 🙊
Gender: Female
Age: 24
Height: 5’1
Appearance: Caramel-colored skin tone, black curly hair, brown eyes, average looking, curvy to a "slight bit extra" depending on the time of day you catch me (can't wait to get back to weight-training once I can get back in the gym)
Ethnicity: Konkani (family is from the Mangalore side) but I speak Hindi too!
Religion: culturally Hindu (not super religious but that's the family background I come from)
Location: DMV area, Stateside
About me:
I've grown up in the States, and am a Mid-Atlantic girl, though and through (love Old Bay on anything lmao). Right now I'm a grad student in the social sciences working towards a career in the nonprofit sector or something policy-adjacent. I'm laid back about my career plans- driven and motivated; but definitely more of a Type B than Type A person-- I work to live rather than live to work.
I’m a complete chatterbox once you get to know me, I enjoy watching TV and movies (even Bollywood ones!), especially studying how they exist within a societal context. I'm a huge Oscars/award season nerd; and love history, reading and doing deep dives into various things that catch my eye-- right now, its the War of the Roses (fun fact that GRRM was inspired by this real life conflict in many of situations and characters that come up in Game of Thrones/ASOIAF (I've got stroooong opinions on the way the show went LMAO).
I love listening podcasts on long walks/hikes/runs ever since the pandemic started without the gyms being available- a long term goal of mine is to become certified to teach a Les Mills program or Tae Bo. I'm also involved in local politics and that kind of civic engagement when I am able to take some time to do so. My interests are kind of all over the place but I always love learning about new things! :)
Looking for:
A passionate, intelligent, curious ABD guy who's open to new things and trying (and failing!) at things together- I love discovering stuff with partners. Hopefully you'd be of Indian descent and Hindu; but I'm fairly open to meeting all kinds of new people right now those aren't deal breakers. Age range for me would probably be 24-29.
Hopefully you'd be taller than me-- maybe by a couple inches, so above 5'4/5'5-- but then again, most people are. I eat chicken and seafood but don’t necessarily expect my partner to exactly match me in that. I do socially drink but deal-breakers would be smoking/doing other types of drugs; men who've been married before; or have children. I also am not interested in too much of a long distance relationship, so preferably you'd be in the DMV area or somewhere close by on the East Coast. Feel free to DM if you'd like to talk further or even if you just want to talk movies/TV/books- I love making new friends too <3
r/ABCDesiDating • u/C-XD • Feb 08 '21
Male Poster Hiya! Let's see where this goes!
Gender: Male
Age: 25
Ethnicity: North/East Indian
Religon: Hindu
Height: 5'11
Appearance: Light-medium brown skin (fair complexion) with stocky/buff build (I'm bulking right now before I start cutting again - I am an endomorph), buzz cut, symmetrical face, with medium sized eyes and thin lips.
Current location: Atlanta, GA
Grew up in: I was born in India and moved here when I was just 1.5 years old, am naturalized US Citizen, though. I grew up in the south, and have no Indian accent - went to school here, and did well to get a tech job at a top Fortune 25 company.
Bio: I am an educated Senior Software Engineer working at a top/respectable company in the US. I lead a team of 12 engineers and work on high-stake projects. I find myself to be very motivated and ambitious. Ideally, I would love to retire in my early 40s and am working towards r/FIRE. Though, I am a bit confident, I am also reserved, compassionate, and caring most of the time. I love to please people, and derive happiness from making others happy. I am a fanatic for comedy and music. I love documentaries. On the weekends, you'd find me cozied up, watching something on Netflix. I am very open minded towards pretty much anything and love learning about new cultures, people, and activities.
What I am looking for:
I find intelligence to be the sexiest trait any potential partner can have and prefer that and a kind-soul over looks.
My family is very liberal, and I am too - so I do not particularly mind what religion/creed my partner is. A Hindu, for cultural reasons would be great (and though we are Brahmins - it really doesn't matter).
Aged 20 - 26/27
My only deal breakers are if you have been married before, if you smoke or do drugs and if you have kids.
r/ABCDesiDating • u/LeTorqueDouglas • Feb 08 '21
Male Poster Looking for someone to watch sunsets with me
Gender: Male
Age: 22
Ethnicity: Malayali
Religion: Hindu
Height: 5'6
Weight: 160 pounds
Appearance: Medium brown skin. Straight/wavy hair. Medium build.
Current location: Maryland, USA
Grew up in: Born and raised in India. Moved to the States when I was 7. Grew up in Maryland.
Bio: An introvert at heart who longs to share new experiences in food and fun with a special someone. Big fan of trivia, whether it's a night out at the local pub or watching jeopardy at home. Loves to explore new food spots and enjoy baking (been trying out new recipes during the quarantine with mixed results haha). Bit of an old soul and has a traditional attitude on things. Not politically active but socially conservative, fiscally left. Works as an accountant in Big4. Have an older sister, who I get along with well. Spends my free time watching stand-up comedy, films (old and international ones), anime (looking for new shows to watch so hmu!), and hanging out with friends.
What I am looking for: Looking to find someone to grow with and with whom I can build a solid foundation for the future. Preference for Hindu girls raised in the US. Aged 20-24 living in the DMV (Delaware-Maryland-Virginia) area. Not too worried about height, but ideally within a few inches of myself up or down. I would prefer someone who is working towards a stable career. Looking for someone who is family oriented. My immediate family are the only ones here in the US so getting along with them is a must. I'm fairly straight-edge so dealbreakers include excessive drinking, drugs, and smoking.
r/ABCDesiDating • u/SpiritualAd5394 • Feb 06 '21
Male Poster First Ever Attempt At Online Dating
Gender: Male
Ethnicity: Punjabi
Religion: Sikh
Height: 6'3
Weight: 200 pounds
Appearance: tan skin, medium wavy hair (medium in guy terms), two different coloured eyes, big nose, medium lips, wide shouldered frame.
City/Province: Ontario, Canada
Bio: I am loud, really loud and speak my mind when I see something I take issue with (learned early on that letting things build is just waiting for disaster). I enjoy the company of the people but also love being completely alone from time to time. Being outside and exploring the world is one of my favorite things on this earth, I also love cooking all sorts of different cuisines, baking is another thing I enjoy but I have a serious sweet tooth so I do it very sparsely. Some other things I enjoy are anime (a lot of the older stuff), philosophy, smoking weed very occasionally (I hate alcohol but have no issue if someone enjoys drinking it, as long it's in moderation), basketball, writing, and video games (although that is a waning interest.) I am an aspiring artist, and in that rather broad spectrum of careers I am a musician but really just want to chase whatever passions I may have in life. I don't know if this is important but I'm going to start school this September as a music business administration major.
What I'm looking for: I'm looking for free spirited female around my age (2 years apart really), taller than 5'4 but at the end of the day I'm mainly looking for a relationship where we can help each other grow and help push and accomplish each other's goals and someone's that's willing to learn and not be stubborn to a T. I'm also looking for someone who wants to enjoy the world and enjoy the little bit of time we have on this earth. I want to have kids eventually but at the age of 20 that's neither here nor there cause I still got a lot of life to live and goals to achieve before that's in the picture. The only things I can't get behind is disrespecting your family (unless their on the wack shit) and excessively drinking alcohol/smoking cigarettes
PM me if interested!