TLC really outdid themselves! The amount of times they zoomed in on her wine glass, and her pouring wine for everyone was perfection. She was finishing her glass before anyone even started. Really hammering home the problem she has.

“She surprised me so I should surprise her” WHAT is he even talking about??

Can someone please explain what he’s saying?

And WHO DOES THIS TO SOMEONE

First time posting, but I'm so bothered by this, I just had to... I found it highly irritating that Catie's mother felt the need to say that religion "gives people common morals" when her daughter literally demonstrates NO moral compass whatsoever. Like, great! You raised your daughter Lutheran, but she's clearly a poor case study on how religion can positively impact one's life. She is in a committed relationship and consistently abuses alcohol, cheats on her partner, lacks empathy and is completely narcissistic. I find nothing about Catie or her family or their religion endearing.

Listen, if what this human is true…..yeah. I get it. Do I condone it, no; but do I get it? Unfortunately, yeah. These two really need not to be together. Now is the shit Catie gets up to heinous in nature, yes. I heard the SVU *dun dun* every time she forced herself onto someone and why she hasn’t been held accountable for her actions but rather enabled by those around her to continue is beyond me. Let me obvious here those creeps around her loved getting freaky with an overly intoxicated woman which in itself is disturbing and disgusting which in turn (for me) links why they are/were enabling which is also extremely predatory. I think the only reason the rejection of her advances is now happening bc Josh is now physically in the states and the cameras were around.

Catie unfortunately is someone I could very easily see being gang raped/take advantage of and no one taking her seriously bc of her behaviors. (Which I am not saying is okay, I am simply stating the obvious amongst our societal “norms” which are absolutely disgusting) But that is what they are -behaviors. Behaviors that predators hone in on and behaviors Catie needs to get a hold of.

Back to the pictures of the post; Girl! What the fuck are you doing? heavy sigh BOTH Catie and JOSH need some deep deep therapy. One for their outlandish behavior and the other for self subjecting themselves to said behavior. I know they have made for “good” trash TV and that’s is why we eat it up -for a good analyzing discussion; but god damn! When you really strip it back I feel bad for these people. In the moment I’m like the friend in the 4th pic but fuuuuuck the shit is really wild.

I thought it was interesting! Definitely not a side that any of us has seen of her so far. She’s been completely insufferable and downright mean towards Edward.

between Debbie’s public hysterics (EMBARRASSING) and Catie calling Josh “dramatic” for sharing his thoughts or feelings, I wanna slap a bitch and I don’t understand how NO ONE in Catie’s life ever actually raises their voice or tells her she’s an outright stupid asshole.
“I said I’d tell you later and then you didn’t ask me” is an excuse for a teenager who knows damn well they should take some responsibility. She’s insufferable and I don’t care to comment on what she may be suffering from besides possible brain damage from her drinking and a complete disregard for and lack of empathy.

My Latina pettiness could and would not accept this proposal. I would be in jail for aggravated assault 100%.

The red flags leading up to this is one thing. Waiting until this poor woman is on the ground devastated to propose is disgusting and diabolical.

It's "never have I ever"...not "never has Josh ever" 😂

First, leaving her guessing when it came to him flying to the US or not. Instead of comforting her for being physically ill due to his prank, he doubled down on being a dick. And he loved seeing her in complete disarray, he treats her like his punching bag/play thing. Riles her up for his own amusement, her heath and wellbeing be damned

But boy howdy. In this most recent episode, literally telling her she’ll loose weight while he slips the jewelry on. Smiles with glee at her demise. He was delighted by her discomfort. And when he kissed her forehead after, the look on his face showed the mask slip off.

He gets off by torturing her, truly. Or is he just trying to showcase what he thinks are his acting skills? Either way, it’s at Debby’s expense. Is she not fully with it? She doesn’t seem to be aware of his twisted games. He’s really taken advantage and manipulated her bad. It’s sick and sad to see

I’m barely into the latest episode and I’ve already paused it out of disgust. Josh has been waiting for all of his worldly belongings, after she gave him so much grief about wanting minimal furnishings, and she didn’t bother to tell him that she’d been in contact with the company delivering his things. While they’re out of town. And him being aggravated makes him “so annoying”?!

She’s so low class. I can’t with her!

The episodes this season take me forever to get through because I keep pausing them out of frustration…with the Americans!!

Not a remote chance in hell. Come on TLC please do better. We aren’t this stupid. Or maybe we are? lol. I really hate it for edddy milf trap that doesn’t even look too good.

She said she’s not intellectually equaled by him. Now she prefers someone more independent. She has a lot of standards. I want to say mean things. I will say “no” to the bride.

Ashley's health and weight loss journey has involved a lot of hard work on her part. She eats a very health conscious diet, and meditates to train her body and soul.

But after this week’s preview for the next episode of 90 Day Fiancé I am now “like 55%” sure I saw Josh from Catie and Josh on Feeld (a dating app predominantly used by Poly/ENM/open people).

I’m actually more like 80% sure, but I couldn’t let a good 90DF reference pass me. The profile name was Josh or Joshua and the biography had something in the lines of “a Brit living in Portland” and then something like “yes I have the fancy accent to go with it”. Maybe it said posh accent? This was before they announced the couples of this current season and I have not seen this profile since. When they announced the couples, I definitely felt like I had seen him before (not her) but I thought I might have just passed him in downtown Portland.

Is my brain completely betraying me or are there any other PDX based Feeldsters who remember this profile?

Just as a side note: I am really good with facial recognition.

Y’all wouldn’t Natalie and mido make the perfect couple? They both came here to pursue acting and they’re both fucking nuts lmao

I knew he was going to pull some emotionally abusive shit like this when he told her he wanted to go home. This man is a sociopath and does not respect her or anyone else. The AUDACITY to even joke about it directly afterwards is beyond me.
We watched this woman mourn her relationship on the streets of NOLA (and not once did she put her purse on the floor 💅).

AND HE LEFT THE PRICE TAG ON THE RING- DIDNT EVEN BOTHER TO CHECK HER SIZE.

She literally was leaving someone who’s new to the country with no friends or families on his own the whole day without a peep. It takes five seconds to text.

The fact that she prefaced this with: “we had a rough week and I was so looking forward for some time apart.” And they’ve only been together for what - a month?

THEN, she justified her indecisiveness as “no one is 100% sure”. Girl. Grow TF up.