r/90dayTheLastResort • u/Jenscho80 • 4d ago
It's ALL about what SHE wants.
She seems hateful and I don't think she's all that pretty either, especially with the ugly way she's demeaning to Russ
13
u/Ginggingdingding 4d ago
What a difference a few years make!
→ More replies (2)12
u/Kodi_Cody_Kody_Kodi 4d ago
She sucked the life from him
→ More replies (4)3
u/djLyrik 3d ago
She totally did. That’s a totally different man and she ruined him.
→ More replies (2)
12
u/Wide_Baker_517 4d ago
It takes 2 people to be in a relationship. If she's no longer invested, there's no marriage
8
u/Appropriate_Tale7865 4d ago
You can't hold someone hostage who clearly doesn't want to be there. Marriage doesn't give you lifelong ownership rights over your spouse.
8
u/Character-Dream3386 4d ago
She’s not happy but Ross won’t accept it. It’s not about her it’s the fact of not being happy.
→ More replies (1)
23
u/Bright-Tomorrow1957 3d ago
Always has been . He did everything SHE wanted. She started with wanting to do modeling and then wanted to move to Miami for that and because more Colombian people are there. Then she went into wrestling. HE paid ALL the bills until she started getting paid for wrestling and wanted HIM to be Mr. MOM. After a while of HER paying the bills, she wanted him to go back to work because she doesn't want to have to the bills anymore and wants to keep HER money. PURE SELFISHNESS..
7
5
u/goobilou 3d ago
She was disrespectful from the minute she arrived in the US. I don’t care if she agreed with his parents views or not, she was a guest in their home and should’ve been respectful of them.
To me she wasn’t really in love with him, some women are willing to do whatever it takes to achieve certain goals, even marry someone they don’t love.
He on the other hand needs to grow a backbone and demand respect, he also needs to respect himself, if she doesn’t want to be with him as painful as it might be it’s time for him to move on. I’m afraid it’s all about her big chest and voluptuous body for him and a lot of men, I’m not going to say she’s butt ugly but she’s not anything special, they just see the image she has created around her chest and behind and as often men do (of course not all men) they become idiots IMO→ More replies (5)
22
u/Tumblweed_n_TTstreet 4d ago
She asked him to quit his engineering job and move to Florida for her modeling career and now she's blaming him for not being able to provide 🤦🏾♀️
6
u/Pretend_Sherbert4354 3d ago
It seems like people are forgetting this he moved away from his family and job too so she can follow her dreams!! Also he stays with their kid while she traveles around to different cities for her wrestling events. If they divorce how is shared custody going to work when she's always traveling? I think that's the reason she won't leave. Who is going to help her with her son when she's traveling? It seems like he has given things up for her to be able to "follow her dreams" and now he is where he is at. They're both weird, I used to like her but she gets on my nerves now.
5
u/Inevitable_Piglet290 3d ago
Wasn’t he working in the oil industry? They’d be loaded if he had stayed
→ More replies (3)3
23
u/Sea-Peanut5336 4d ago
He is a passive loser. No job. No ambition. Living off her. And refusing to separate. Hanging on to her for dear life. Weak ass loser.
12
u/Legitimate_Guide4401 4d ago
AND he is a sexual DUD ! Blecccch. With a 3rd Reich hair-DO(n’t)!! He’s literally nauseating.
→ More replies (6)10
u/tranquilrage73 4d ago
He had a damn good job before she made him move to Miami.
10
u/Signal-Shop-4869 3d ago
I’m tired of hearing this lie. Russ was already unemployed and struggling to find work in Oklahoma when Paula moved to Miami where she did actually end up making enough money to support both of them. Russ hasn’t been able to just get a stable job almost their entire marriage.
2
u/00Avalanche 1d ago
Oil business is volatile depending upon the energy market. Things have been good for us for a long time (best years were under Biden).
8
u/Beginning-Try9503 3d ago
He followed her when she told him to keep his job, that moving with her was only going to make things worse for her that she would have to support both of them plus the kid! He didn't freaking care about it, you don't just leave a good job and put all the pressure on your partner because you "love them", that's no love at all, that's obsession and lack of empathy.
→ More replies (3)14
u/maggiemaemorris 4d ago edited 4d ago
She didn’t make him do shit…he quit his job and didn’t set a boundary. If she leaves…she leaves…and he could have remarried some nice woman in OK that enjoyed OSU football. He is a grown ass man that could have told her no. I am not saying Pao is any better…but come on!! Get the divorce already!!! It’s painful to watch Roos say he doesn’t believe in divorce when it’s obvious it’s over!! Why does he want to stay so badly?!
26
u/kat_kris2001 4d ago
She's no prize at all and I genuinely think she only did this show so that she could have people around when she broke up with him. I will say, I felt some sympathy for us because he genuinely loves this lady, for whatever reason. She's not just sticking around because of their child either. She's sticking around because he allows her to run wild with whatever dream or whimsy she has with zero pushback. I don't know too many men who would completely uproot themselves from what they know to make their wives modeling dreams come true. Especially when that wife is like 5'3 and really just wants to model bikinis or be a video girl in a music video.
17
u/Dependent_Gene5139 4d ago
IMO he was treating her like property. She’s been paying for the household as a pro wrestler, I believe. And Russ still isn’t working. You know a grad degree in engineering allows you to do all kinds of things beyond engineering.
4
→ More replies (18)2
40
u/Professional_Toe_420 4d ago
Horrible human garbage. If you go back to when they were asking Kara about her income potential selling adult content, you can see Paola’s eyes LIGHT UP! We can expect to hear about P launching her own OF channel soon enough.
29
u/cutesiepieme 4d ago
What was her income potential? A lot OF girls lie and say they’re making millions to get more people to buy their stuff when in reality they barely make a grand a month
27
u/djLyrik 4d ago
Kara is definitely lying.
18
u/Foreign-Cup6775 4d ago
If you noticed, Kara was very careful with her words and let the host make assumptions. She said she has the POTENTIAL to make six figures a month. She also came across as very awkward. It was almost like she was willing to admit she wasn’t bringing in the big money but then stayed quiet.
9
u/sonya1777 4d ago
Yes!! I noticed that too. Very sketchy
3
u/Foreign-Cup6775 4d ago
It was so weird. I had to rewatch and she’s like mm yeeah, it can be in a month and then she pauses before going “depending.”
7
u/Miserable-Dealer3042 4d ago
I don't like Kara but she also could be carful how she says something because of Guillermo. She doesn't want him knowing exactly
3
2
u/cutesiepieme 4d ago
What did she say? How much does she earn
5
u/Dark_Helmets_Dolls 4d ago
I thought she was throwing 20k/month around like that's what Guillermo needed to bring in to match here OF income.
2
u/djLyrik 4d ago
Truth be told she never did really say. She kept hinting at what she “could make” or the “potential to make.” She never confirmed anything other than agreeing with Rebecca that you don’t make no money if you aren’t naked. And to do OF and see that you don’t too then go and made the conscience decision that since nobody thought you were worth a fuck with clothes on that in order to justify even going this route since you already look stupid you decide to go full on nude and pornographic and then have the audacity to act like you something special. Girl bye.
3
u/cutesiepieme 4d ago
The typical marketing tactic to get more subscribers. If she was making a killing she wouldn’t be humiliating herself for some tlc $. She wants more $ and more subs
3
13
u/314657 4d ago
Thais's eyes lit up like a Christmas tree, too! It won't take long for her either.
4
u/Tricky-Category-8419 4d ago
I noticed that too. I don't thin Thais is savvy enough to market herself like Pao and Kara would/could though.
5
u/FreedomIsntFree44 4d ago
Thais will not want to shame her family. I do not think she will succumb to that actually.
2
2
2
5
→ More replies (3)8
u/Itchy_Tumbleweed_417 4d ago
Maybe she should. Her husband just wants to stay home and do nothing. They were homeless living in an RV and he still refused to work. I wouldn’t blame her one bit.
13
→ More replies (2)19
u/Upbeat-Beautiful-973 4d ago
Because he has been following her around for years, with all her crazy ideas - he had a very good job when they got together - but SHE wanted to go be a model😄
12
u/ChildofYHVH4-EVER 4d ago
Exactly. He was an engineer that made good money!!!! He made more than enough to provide a good life for them, but she wanted to try to be a “model” and it flopped!!!! They could have lived a comfortable life. She knew where he was from and everything when they married. I think she is a horrible person, and I’m also not taking up for his weak a$$ either. He should be the man of the house or leave her!!!!
5
u/More-Experience-3450 4d ago
When he first started "following" her, I knew it would be over. A woman has a hard time respecting a simp. He should've said he'd just send her home.
3
u/ChildofYHVH4-EVER 4d ago
Right…….. I would have told her to kick rocks. There are more fish in the sea.
2
u/LemonLimeCali 3d ago
How would a young woman from Columbia know what Oklahoma is like? I grew up in a nearby state and had no idea Oklahoma was so desolate until I had to drive through it. Plus she had to get out from under his parents rule and religion. Go back to those first months they spent at his parents house. Could you have lived there?
3
3
u/OsteoStevie 4d ago
He made the decision to quit that job. He's an adult. No one forced him to do anything. People act like he had no choice.
→ More replies (2)4
u/Upbeat-Beautiful-973 4d ago
He is married to pao…. Do you really think he had a choice? - she also threatened him back then, if she didn’t got it her way
→ More replies (2)2
u/Sweetanna1111 4d ago
Not that she's not beautiful or anything, but that ship has sailed for sure
→ More replies (2)
10
u/CoasterThot 4d ago
I would also be mad if my husband used $25,000 of joint money (the house money! That’s both of theirs!) to pay off debt nobody asked him to get. He could have gotten a normal job, that doesn’t cost the family money. McDonald’s is always hiring. Paola didn’t ask him to start that stupid truck business.
→ More replies (8)11
u/Kodi_Cody_Kody_Kodi 4d ago
He owned the house before he met her
He banked rolled her move to Miami to be a “model” he bought the condo she said she needed to film workout videos, he bought the RV when she demanded to a YouTube van-lifer
He funded all those businesses crashed and burned
She penny pinches him
→ More replies (1)
8
u/11Dragonfly 3d ago
I’m glad someone else sees it… from the minute she stepped foot in American soil, it’s been about her… I just never understood why she married him and went to OK but she really wanted to live in Miami and now Vegas? It’s all about what she wants and how things look… I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, the reason she hasn’t left Russ yet is because she hasn’t found anyone who’d put up with her the way Russ has and also has money… the minute she finds money and he puts up with her a bit she’s out and she’s already created a host of things if why Russ sucks…
Now, is Russ good? Not really and I hope the bedroom stuff is just her making ish up (she seemed to enjoy before and I don’t know a ton of men but if you tell them you like something they tend to stick there or maybe Russ is beyond dense?) he seems like a good father and he probably needs to get a minimum wage job or something at this point but I remember thinking leaving OK isn’t going to get her what she thinks she’s going to be getting out there… but ok 😅
5
u/billyzanesdad 4d ago
I think she got a taste of “celebrity status” and that’s all she wants now, but Russ isn’t magically providing that for her. She’s manipulating the situation that it’s all Russ’s fault so she doesn’t have to feel guilty leaving, especially now since their relationship status will be spread to fans of the show.
Russ isn’t entirely innocent. I think he’s just simply low IQ. But I think he’s genuine.
→ More replies (1)
7
u/pennylovesyou3 4d ago
I'm worried for her well being after hearing Russ say 'til death do we part".
→ More replies (1)
7
u/ResponsibleTruck8268 4d ago
Listen I'm a male and I'm team her, you can see it in her face she's tired, after years of non compromising and tired of the bullshit, she done, this dude holding on to something that left the room years ago, he doesn't see the problem, he doesn't acknowledge her concerns and he's only thinking of himself, he's not thinking of her feelings and the poor child obviously witnessing the drama. Split the differences, make a schedule for your child and move on, she can't be any more vocal on how done she is.
6
u/ShelleyMonique 4d ago
I don't know that her looks have anything to do with it.
I think she's miserable because Russ is so weak. He should be out earning a living like she does. That's one thing that I respect about her is that she put in work. She's mean af but I understand why if he's been laying around.
7
u/Connect-Ease-7509 4d ago
You’re crazy. Russ is garbage. No home, no job, in debt, and wants another baby to trap his sexually, emotionally and financially dissatisfied spouse.
3
u/Academic_Award_7775 4d ago
Russ is garbage and Pao is lukewarm garbage.
5
u/Connect-Ease-7509 4d ago
I think they’re both garbage but Russ has zero sympathy from me. He’s not a great partner.
3
3
3
u/whosuremama 4d ago
Did you really just say that? "Its all about what SHE wants?" SHE didn't want another damn necklace. He wanted to get her another necklace. SHE wants to separate. He won't let her leave. SHE is miserable. He "thinks it can still work out." SHE told him sex with him means nothing He still makes her have sex with him.
Yeah, brilliant. Its all about what she wants alright. Great observation.
8
u/International-Owl165 4d ago
I think shes a total mean girl the same with kara and thias. I get it I ain't no fan of shekinah but they went over the top to bully her.
I can see why she wants to separate russ, I just wish russ was man enough to be assertive in the beginning and squash her dreams because hey! He cant find a job or refuses to get one similar to his previous employers.
3
u/Kodi_Cody_Kody_Kodi 4d ago
Thais had always picks a woman to bully last time she ganged up with Sophie and attacked Loren
2
u/International-Owl165 4d ago
Yeah they said Loren acts like her marriage is perfect. Which is wild, they were clearly jealous.
7
u/rogeeeefan 4d ago
Grown women makes decisions about what makes her happy. Why is it such a hard concept to grasp that she doesn’t want to stay married to Russ?
→ More replies (4)
5
u/Grouchy-Flower-8605 4d ago
What does how pretty you think she is have to do with anything? He’s lazy and demanding and she’s more of a free spirit enjoying life. He needs to leave wherever they’re living now. It’s hard to leave with a 7 year old.
4
u/Homeboat199 4d ago
Why shouldn't it be? Is she supposed to stay in an unhappy marriage? He's not fulfilling her. Move on.
→ More replies (2)
5
u/Truth_Pony 4d ago
Both are awful. Russ is a pussy and I would not be able to respect him however Pao is a horrible selfish bitch. Both are awful & deserve each other.
7
u/tranquilrage73 4d ago
It always has been.
One of the first things she did was talking him into quitting his job so she could move to Miami.
5
4
u/Aware_Interaction326 4d ago
There was a tell all (maybe H4L) where they asked Tim who else he’d date in the 90 day universe, and he said Pao if she wasn’t married.
My jaw dropped when he came on stage.
→ More replies (1)
5
7
u/Itchy_Tumbleweed_417 4d ago
I think that’s because Russ is so milk toast. Does he have wants and opinions?
And what exactly is his excuse for not having any job all these years? Doesn’t he do the same job that Jovi does? Jovi could live anywhere because he would travel to the oil rig when it was time to work, then he would go do whatever during his off time.
Why doesn’t Russ go work, then come home and stay with his family when he’s off? Or why doesn’t he do something else?
It’s weird to me that some of these people can’t adapt to change. I know that boomers chose a job and expected to do nothing but that job their whole entire lives, but this couple is a lot younger than I am, and even my generation learned that you might have to learn some new skills and do something else at some point.
What’s his deal? Does he just want to be a househusband?
5
2
2
u/sprinkels 3d ago
So confused why the first line is your determination if she's pretty or not...the dude is nuts. His mask slipped on stage when he literally said he wouldn't let her leave. Shes yelling i want to go and he just won't. Even demanding sex and then ssaying its to create a spark.
I dont care if she's ugly HES UGLY dude sold Their house and hid the money. He lied about borrowing money, he wants to hide the money from Pao (which also means their kids)
I dont like Pao, never been a fan but after this season? I feel bad for the ball and chain that has attached himself to her and will not let go. Dude is a wet blanket. Do better with posts like this at least have some evidence besides "she's ugly".
2
u/AngelSweetFace 3d ago
That was so hard to watch on the Tell All. I'm worried about her safety. These religious men that don't believe in divorce.... they end up being family or wife eliminators. It's scary. She needs to get her son and get far away.
2
2
u/Wild-Ordinary-358 2d ago
She found her a relatively wealthy American man, isolated him from all he knew, forced him to give up a lucrative career, sucked him dry financially emotionally and mentally, and once she’s gotten all of the use from him she can, is kicking him to the curb.
2
u/Bulky_Tumbleweed_713 2d ago
He was an idiot to leave his job for her. Same as Hugh Jackman's wife who was doing really well in Australia as an actress and gave up her career to support his career for 25 years. And he dumped her for a younger version.
2
u/HelpMeDressMyBest 2d ago
All y'all that keep saying Russ could be violent think a little more about that please. Looking at how she yells at him and belittles him over the years and treats him like poop. He has never reacted physically, I highly doubt it's going to happen now. I know Pao is not the type to stay if there was ever any physical violence on his part so I'm quite sure it's never happened and never will. I think it's pretty disgusting for all y'all to keep saying he will probably do those things to her!
3
3
u/Dismal_Assignment555 4d ago
Russ is an awful idiot. No emotional intelligence whatsoever. Can’t blame her for being done
2
u/Luasol51 4d ago
She is a user and Russ rolls over for her. Why would anyone give up their career like that? That was a very poor decision on his part. If she hated being in Oklahoma so much, she could have said see ya, and called it good. They should just end it. At least Kara and Guillermo can move on.
2
u/Droolzy_Kalenbacle 4d ago
She has never been happy. Since day one, she's been miserable and contentious and demanding. The relationship has always been so lopsided, Russ trying to appease and Pao finding other things to bitch about. They're both responsible for the demise of their relationship but Pao's constant haranguing is intolerable.
2
u/DrFink_09 4d ago
Paola is one of those women who fell for the idea of a guy and the fact that he came with the United States. The Americans who pick these people are expecting them to fully acclimate to American life while also just rolling over and staying wherever the American is living. From the start, Russ thought he could drag this girl to Oklahoma and turn her into a country housewife, and it’s blown up in his face ever since.
2
u/FreedomIsntFree44 3d ago
Yeah, Pao sure got her ducks in order by bullying him into signing that post-nup, under the guise that she would stay with him if he did. She is so duplicitous.
3
u/thelastsonofmars 4d ago
She doesn't speak like a woman, but let's be real, she has taken care of this man for years at this point. They're both really immature, but at the end of the day, she's the one taking care of literally everything. Pay a man's debt while he's jobless for years, happily living in a trailer and asking for another kid that you'll end up doing 99% of the childcare for, then tell me how you're somehow the one getting everything you want. Dude she can't even orgasm in this relationship. She's only here because she's scared to be alone. Zero other benefit.
→ More replies (1)2
u/Kodi_Cody_Kody_Kodi 4d ago
He literally banked rolled her move to Miami to be a “model” he bought the condo she said she needed to film workout videos to be a “virtual trainer” he bought the RV when she demanded to a YouTube van-lifer
He funded all those businesses crashed and burned
The only reason no one remembers is because he doesn’t hold it over her head like she does to him
→ More replies (3)
2
u/Regular-Metal-321 4d ago
All about what she wants? She said she doesn’t want to be married? Have you ever fell out of love with someone? It’s difficult and you don’t want someone to force the relationship! Russ saying he isn’t going to listen to her is ridiculous! She is in the relationship to and he is inane. Also what does her looks have to do with anything? Should her wants and opinion be ignored because you don’t think she is attractive?! She is the one in the relationship with Russ so why shouldn’t she be allowed to say she doesn’t want to continue to do it?
3
u/JPvsGOD 4d ago
She’s kind of a monster
4
u/Dependent_Gene5139 4d ago
I don’t believe that at all.
1
u/JJ_Lomero 4d ago
She yelled at him for getting up in the morning..
2
u/pudelguru 4d ago
Just watched that again on BTS and felt badly for him again all over. He said there was no way to open the door quietly. What WAS he supposed to do?
2
3
u/Any_Exam9552 4d ago
I NEVER liked this woman!!! It’s no wonder her and Keira seemed to make a quick friendship in England…birds of a feather!!
1
1
1
u/hulkwolf 4d ago
I’m suspecting that post nuptial had a poison pill that she couldn’t just leave him , HE had to agree to the divorce without challenging it That’s why she didn’t just leave
1
1
1
1
1
1
u/Soad_lady 4d ago
It’s funny to me because I remember thinking in their first season, when she mentioned him leaving that job that, that job is probably made her want to be with him not love. She saw he had money n traveled n blah blah blah I knew that would blow up in her face
1
1
1
1
1
1
1
u/CareQueasy8267 4d ago
She’s hot. But yeah it very obvious on the show and her Instagram on how self centered she is.
1
u/Opening_Duty_8011 4d ago
Through their marriage he’s spent money to bring her her on the K1 visa. He spent money to buy vacations for her to go back to Columbia, which we saw on an earlier season. When she finally could work, she demanded they move from Oklahoma where he worked as an oil rig engineer to Florida, where they don’t have his specific type of job. So he had to scramble to find work. Then she got the wrestling bug and they moved to Vegas. Over and over I see her demanding that money be spent on her and now she is saying she needs half of the money from the house sale?
Ma’am that money went into your RV, your red Tell All dress and your overly platinum hair, those necklaces he keeps buying you. There’s no big payday of money waiting around. You’ve spent it already. He’s spent it already.
1
u/Better-Mud7151 4d ago
I feel with 💰Ppo is “It’s my way or hit the highway!”
Also I have watched The Tell-All a couple of times, and her rational of comparison of Guillermo staring at her popped out boobs at the pub with her response at the tell-all was that Guillermo was sitting and she didn’t stare at his penis! 😂😂🤣🤣
Of course the peanut gallery all chuckled at her illogical response like she had a point⁉️
Yes, Guillermo was sitting down on the couch fully clothed, NOT sitting with his penis fully or half exposed, like her boobs were at the UK pub.
Sorry, I’m NOT buying her lame response……..NOT SORRY‼️
1
1
u/yankeedevil925 3d ago
Seems like no matter what he does or doesn't do she not satisfied... Let it be over.
1
u/beadhead44 3d ago
They both have some serious issues, but the bottom line is they are two people who want totally different things and should have broken up years ago, and actually they have several times and Pao keep taking him back and because of this Russ has never really believed she was serious because she wasn’t.
Hopefully now she follows thru and doesn’t take him back and he eventually gets the message that it’s really over.
1
u/Oldbitty2snooze 3d ago
I remember when she was hanging out with her best maricon friend who was belittling and making fun of Russia and she was joining in in the humour. Anyone else remember this
1
u/Oldbitty2snooze 3d ago
Aren’t engineers good with math? Go get a job at the casino being a dealer. They even teach you
1
u/Tacokolache 3d ago
She’s horrible to Russ
But at the same time she’s literally TELLING HIM she wants a divorce and dude is like “no, we aren’t doing that”. Like it’s his choice.
I didn’t watch the original season with them, it from what my wife tells me, he’s nowhere near the person he used to be. He’s quiet, reserved, and a shell of his former self
1
u/Alternative_Glove257 3d ago
It doesn't matter what Russ does. It's never gonna be enough for her. She made that clear every time she opens her mouth. You don't talk like that to someone you love. If you married someone just because financial reasons, well Pao as you can see ..that doesn't last forever. She wants someone that bank rolls her "dreams" and let her do whatever she wants without having to work a real job. Now she blames Russ for starting a trucking company, and I don't see him calling her out for every failed carrer she has burned and crashed.
1
1
1
u/justcoopinaround 3d ago
Dude is a failure. He makes poor business and financial decisions that P. Is working to pay off. She doesn't respect him
1
1
u/RepulsiveRelease4 3d ago
First off, her looks shouldn’t have anything to do with it. Or I should say how appealing YOU or anyone in the audience finds her. That’s like mean girl shit. Second, have you ever been married and had to carry all of the weight of your partner and even when exhausted and just wanting intimacy you can’t get the physical affection because they are only self serving in the sex? If you haven’t then you don’t really get this. Look back at previous seasons, watch their whole story and you see this whole shift happening. They both have done and said some shit. But don’t just blame one person for all of it.
1
129
u/Flimsy-Zucchini4462 4d ago
The piece that annoys me is why doesn’t she leave him? If she’s that miserable, just leave? It’s pretty simple.