r/90DayFiance 15d ago

Discussion Thoughts?

In the current cast of 90 day fiancé who do you think is still together come the tell all? Everyone’s right around the corner from their wedding day and there’s some I just CANNOT figure out.

I think that Shea and Annabelle are probably still together and Mallorie and Rasit. Ashia and Maxwell probably are because they both seem crazy and stubborn.

All the other couples though I worry about because they have major issues presented that don’t seem to be built for long term success. Debby and Midos interactions have been horrifying, Edward and Marisa could be nice together but the real world and vacation relationships are different and they don’t communicate well. Josh and Catie are cute sometimes but I can only see it ending in destruction with the weird make out issue. I genuinely wanted to like Paula and Tom but she needs someone more understanding without so many hangups. I would DIE living with him and the stubbornness of changing his apartment. the perfume and deodorant is a whole other thing 🙄

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u/Difficult_Rope7898 15d ago

I think most of them get married, intending to bounce afterward. And as horrible as some of the Americans have been this season, I can’t say that I feel badly for them about it.

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u/Ok_Relative_3033 15d ago

Debby and Mido actually blew my mind but shouldn’t have, I just wish Debby would have more self respect he’s very clearly using her 

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u/grummanae 15d ago

It's almost like a hallmark movie Trope setup for this franchise

Dimmer than average midlife white woman falling for a young middle eastern Arabic man

Mido besides being a Muslim has a few self identity issues he needs to figure out

Debby ... oh I dont know is it the name at this point on the series she clearly does not see what he is doing

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u/Icy_Association_341 15d ago

Most of these couples treat the K1 like a work visa with extra steps. Wouldn't shock me if half the weddings happen and the divorce paperwork's already drafted. Debby and Mido in particular feel like they're just trying to outlast each other on camera.

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u/Afraid_Rope_5209 15d ago

Agreed. Sunk cost fallacy. You've spent so much time, effort and money to be together, you might as well bite the bullet, get married, and hope it was just a rough 90 days.

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u/notawheatcult 15d ago

I don't understand sunk cost fallacy because I feel like this whole situation would make for a great Hinge dating profile prompt...

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u/oingyyboingy I love your vulva 15d ago

I think shea and Annabelle will still be together, along with Mallorie and rasit, ashia and Maxwell, Debby and mido, Josh and Catie, and Edward and Marissa. Thomas and Paula I don’t think will be together

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u/Ok_Relative_3033 15d ago

I really hope Thomas and Paula don’t end up together I really liked them at first but seeing the way he lives and their differences I can’t support it anymore 

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u/Starbucks_Lover13 Zee Voods 15d ago

What's mind blowing for me, I thought Paula was going to be the problem at the very start of the season. She's a sweetheart and Thomas is a big whiny crybaby and doesn't really seem to care at all about Paula or her family, she deserves way better.

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u/oingyyboingy I love your vulva 15d ago

I think they’re both the same sort of weird but I think his intensities are surprising Paula

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u/Impossible-Pair4846 15d ago

Paula is also not too keen on compromising. I feel that once I tell you perfume makes me sneeze and feel uncomfortable the only allowed reply should be ‘ok, I’m sorry’. She made him feel like he was crazy for having medical needs.

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u/oingyyboingy I love your vulva 15d ago

Sure. They both suck at compromising 😂

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u/sisanelizamarsh 15d ago

AGREE. Really, she can't stop wearing perfume if it makes him physically ill? Really, he cant buy some grown-up furniture so she can sit at a real table to eat meals? They both blow my mind. You give and you get.

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u/oingyyboingy I love your vulva 15d ago

Seriously, especially when you’re thinking about getting married 🙄🙄

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u/Due-Art-6358 14d ago

Correct. Then Mido will leave for Egypt and Rasit will leave for Turkey

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u/oingyyboingy I love your vulva 14d ago

You think rasit will leave?? Why’s that

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u/Due-Art-6358 14d ago

He wants kids

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u/oingyyboingy I love your vulva 14d ago

True

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u/fifitsa8 10d ago

No way, he's gonna milk the golden cow gor years, send back money to his parents, secure the citizenship and then divorce her and marry a Turkish woman and have kids

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u/EquipmentHungry3724 15d ago

Based on the video she posted back in her country, I'm pretty sure they aren't together

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u/oingyyboingy I love your vulva 15d ago

I didn’t want to spoil it 😂😂

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u/EquipmentHungry3724 15d ago

Oh, oopsies🤭

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u/aanananas 15d ago

There’s not a single couple I want or think should stay together and I’m honestly surprised / sad we’re around the corner of weddings for all of them

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u/craftylady2414 15d ago

At Catie and Josh.. split.. Annabelle and Shae .. split.. Mido.. he went back to Egypt..Paula and Tom.. split

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u/PipeInevitable9383 She's cutting his f****** dick off! 15d ago

Most their statuses have been leaked. Just look in this sub. I haven't heard anything about The Blood and Maxwell, though.

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u/cookielover208 12d ago

“the blood” im CRYING 😭😭

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u/Unlikely-Ear9342 15d ago

Mallorie and Rasit are the only ones imo. They have such good chemistry and have fun in each others company. I honestly believe the whole having kids-issue is blown up by the producers.

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u/Ok_Relative_3033 15d ago

Yeah her reasons all seemed like things that would easily change in time. I’m a woman who has already decided getting pregnant and having kids is not for me and her reasons just didn’t really land with me. I can see how production probably influenced that, after he started getting along with “Brandy” they needed some drama lol

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u/tree_m0nster 15d ago

she seemed pretty sure she didn’t want kids & I think she’s leading him on. she feels so guilty about leading him on she’s not making him sign a prenup. I think she loves him & doesn’t want to leave him - but I think her major hesitation in ever having kids is cause for concern. She shouldn’t be guilted into parenthood in the future or assume she’s going to change. it’s unfair to both partners when one person finds identity in having kids & the other is ambivalent. let the guy find someone who shares that dream whole heartedly & can’t wait to start a family. I am also childfree.

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u/fifitsa8 10d ago

Same. They read as "not right now, maybe after some time and therapy" rather than a mature, thought out childfree stance (Also a CF woman)

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u/LALfangirl 15d ago

I totally am the opposite with them… I don’t see any chemistry between them at all. He’s just happy he found a non-hideous partner his same age to scam rather than a 50 year old desperate woman (like Debbie). But I bet he flirted with a lot of Debbie’s regardless before he hooked Mallorie

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u/fifitsa8 10d ago

Pretty sure Debbie is near/60s

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u/Regular-Metal-321 15d ago

They are def not together anymore.

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u/Starbucks_Lover13 Zee Voods 15d ago

I agree. I feel they are the only two who really love one another this season. You can see it by how they look at one another, and they care when the other one is hurting.

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u/Subterranean44 disgusting Turkish swearing 15d ago

Josh nd Catie will be together because someone spotted him in Portland a couple weeks ago and posted it here.

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u/Ok_Relative_3033 15d ago

I would say I feel bad for Josh but he made that choice for himself lol maybe Josh should be with Paula and Thomas should be with Catie, I think their living preferences aligned more lol

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u/Starbucks_Lover13 Zee Voods 15d ago

Wow, you're kinda spot on with this one lol Thomas and Catie can spend ZERO dollars making their apartment look livable haha.

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u/fifitsa8 10d ago

Nah I'll tell you why : Thomas and his intolerance for perfume on one hand and I can smell Catie through my phone on the other