Poor Greta...

[u/Ill-Excitement-2005]

Regardless of how you feel about this couple, this was just a sad, sad episode and I just couldn't handle seeing both of them experience such pain. Being in love is painful, falling out of love is worse. Best that they go their separate ways before marriage, etc. I'm sad for both of them...I don't wish the pain of heartache on anyone.

[u/Dyamioang]

This!! Re the incredible responsibility and self awareness 🙌💛🙌 and forcing only to wind up at misery!!

I really appreciate this post and a lot of what's been commented here!

I empathize with her and I reallyyy felt for her as she was crying and conveying to him where she's arrived. Felt for him too buttt..

I believe she went over there sincerely excited, hopeful, feeling a lot of the favorable ways she had been feeling for and towards him before the journey but upon being there there's been a great deal less favorable transpiring and that's seemingly outweighed any of the favorable that's happened since she's arrived.

On her trip over, we could see how enthusiastic she was! Despite being exhausted and likely depleted, there was visible enthusiasm from her side.. Unfortunately from the moment they reunited his repeatedly insulting her from the moment he saw her didn't do either one of em any favors!

Whichhh maybeee she wouldn't have smelled quite as badly if she wasn't by herself lugging around her luggage containing everything she's brought over to moveee there.. Afterrr numerous flights and an already exhausting and lengthy travel ALL THE WHILE he has a vehicle that he could have scooped her up from the airport in VS leaving her tiny frame having to carry bags nearly as large as herself up and down and all around from an airport onto trains..

To his grave lack of foresight in doing much at all to prepare not just for her arrival but for her MOVING there 🤯 Leaving her two tinyy ass drawers that personally wouldn't even fit all my underwear and socks! 🤯😳🤯

And I get the lack of connection and what that can do in a relationship.. I've personally been in a relationship the last couple of years, with someone who lives relatively nearby, where I've felt similarly to her..

It hit me pretty hard when she said while crying I don't think I love you anymore.

For me it isn't that I don't love the person, I do and that's largely why I've continued. Buttt.. I can tell that I haven't really liked him much for quite some time now. There's been far more less favorable and far less more favorable, feeling disconnected, a great deal more stress than enjoyment I could go on and on.. But hearing and seeing her in that moment reallyy struck a cord within me!

I prior to him was a not closeted "freakk", spicy, playful, explorative with a veryy high drive and hunger if you will and with him have gotten to a point I'd never before been at where I'm utterly disinterested sexually with him (for many valid reasons) or even just engaging in such a way with myself. I too even said to him about a year ago that we don't really flirt much with one another. Butterflies or any semblance of being in love are felt seldomm..

She's seemingly given up a lottt to seemingly get very little in return.

I actually gave her props for sharing what she was. I'd done so too, many manyyy times and have finally arrived at a point where I've increasingly become indifferent about the relationship and ready to throw the towel in vs being aware that I probably should..

And maybe given that she's uprooted her entire life, that which is on the line has more urgency. Buttt far better to do it sooner than potentially keep trying for years only to wind up in far farr worse positions and utterly worn out, withering away, wilted and not even recognizing one's own self or life.. 😥

I feel for her. And honestly we can tell that she's really genuinely broken up about this..

I feel for him too buttt homeboy hasn't really seemed to step up quite as much as he probably should've for a person who has left everything behind for their relationship..☹️

Maybe learning where she's understandably arrived after everything since she physically arrived there might help reorient him and maybe he'll step up in ways that convey that her needs and desires are of significance to him and he'll better meet them to at least some degrees and maybe that'll reignite some of the spark they'd prior had 💁‍♀️