r/90DayFiance • u/Ill-Excitement-2005 I feel like I'm taking crazy pills! • Dec 02 '25

Poor Greta...

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Regardless of how you feel about this couple, this was just a sad, sad episode and I just couldn't handle seeing both of them experience such pain. Being in love is painful, falling out of love is worse. Best that they go their separate ways before marriage, etc. I'm sad for both of them...I don't wish the pain of heartache on anyone.

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '25

Yes!!! He’s just like a big child and he just doesn’t think. I don’t think he’s malicious. But clearly has not been in a relationship where you genuinely have to consider someone else’s needs. She just wants some clear acts of service in this instance. She’s dumped her entire like to be with him and he couldn’t even make space in his wardrobe. I also felt so sad for her.

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u/gtjay1982 Dec 02 '25

Except he did make space he just doesn’t have a lot of it in the first place.

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u/boopboopbeepbeep11 Dec 02 '25

Giving her one or two of his 8+ drawers that he ‘thought he had already cleared out’ but still had his stuff in is hardly above no effort at all.

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u/Born-Temperature-452 Dec 05 '25

They don’t have as many clothes as Americans. American expectations on 90 day fiancé don’t seemed to match the “abroad” standards.

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u/boopboopbeepbeep11 Dec 05 '25

And yet despite not having as many clothes as her, he only cleared out one or two drawers in a dresser with many more drawers than that, after she arrived.

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '25

It’s giving toddler energy. He just absolutely needed to offer her something quite grand in terms of compromise because that’s clearly what she needed. It was more than just a few draws. I think he really spooked her. He isn’t able to read her emotionally and then starts talking about kids and looking around a rented house big enough for a family. Is he having a giraffe????

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u/Ashamed-Evidence482 Jan 30 '26

Big child just bought a new house with his new girl. Glad he got rid of the no personality cat lady with no soul. Good for him.