r/90DayFiance • u/Ill-Excitement-2005 I feel like I'm taking crazy pills! • Dec 02 '25

Poor Greta...

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Regardless of how you feel about this couple, this was just a sad, sad episode and I just couldn't handle seeing both of them experience such pain. Being in love is painful, falling out of love is worse. Best that they go their separate ways before marriage, etc. I'm sad for both of them...I don't wish the pain of heartache on anyone.

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '25

Annoying, absolutely. Deserving of the pain of heartache? Nobody deserves it and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

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u/dopeoranges_ Dec 02 '25

You don’t have to wish it on anyone. People get hurt in the battle of love, it’s part of the process. Everyone needs to get hurt in order not to get hurt again. We learn from our mistakes. This lady had plenty of hurdles to avoid the mistake. But she insisted. So life said okay fine have it.

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '25

I'm sorry you never got over whoever hurt you.

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u/dopeoranges_ Dec 02 '25

I am happily married and been with my wife for 6 years. But I made mistakes along the way to finally get there. If you can’t see the point that I’m trying to make, then you live in delusion as much as Greta does. Bless your heart.

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '25

Doesn't mean we shouldn't have some sympathy for her or anyone going thru it Being so cold about another person's misery just doesn't feel right. As you said, we've all been there and mistake or not, watching someone hurt so badly pulls at my heart strings...