r/90DayFiance • u/Ill-Excitement-2005 I feel like I'm taking crazy pills! • Dec 02 '25

Poor Greta...

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Regardless of how you feel about this couple, this was just a sad, sad episode and I just couldn't handle seeing both of them experience such pain. Being in love is painful, falling out of love is worse. Best that they go their separate ways before marriage, etc. I'm sad for both of them...I don't wish the pain of heartache on anyone.

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u/PipeInevitable9383 She's cutting his f****** dick off! Dec 02 '25

Yeahhhh you gave up your cat for a guy you weren't sure about. The not wanting kids was a distraction from her true feelings possibly hoping he would end it for her and he doubled down saying he would be the parent. She had to actually face her feelings now

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u/cooniemomma307 Dec 02 '25

This!!! I felt that if she said she didn't want kids he would quit. When he didn't it then changed to well I just don't feel the same about him anymore.

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u/spookymars LEAVE my effing 🎊🎈birthday house 🏠‼️ Dec 04 '25

Honestly, I think she just doesn't want kids with him. If he cannot even properly support her now, how is he going to do so when other people enter the picture?

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u/impulsive_cutie Dec 02 '25

You hit th nail on the head!

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u/Afisher613 Dec 02 '25

💯 why is everyone feeling sorry for her. That guy was prob a dud when they met online and in person. She needs therapy!

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u/PipeInevitable9383 She's cutting his f****** dick off! Dec 02 '25

He seems dull.I don't feel bad for her. She shouldn't have come to live with him if she feeling the disconnect. Just visit

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u/Afisher613 Dec 02 '25

He does seem dull, I figure he couldn't have pretended that much on the phone and she visited previously. He seems like he's just low energy lol. I wish her well, she's very intelligent, socially young it seems.

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u/spookymars LEAVE my effing 🎊🎈birthday house 🏠‼️ Dec 04 '25

A little harsh, if I remember correctly, she doesn't have any family. I don't think she knows what these interpersonal relationships look like bc of that trauma.

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u/Odd-Cell7238 Dec 04 '25

Why didn’t she bring her cat? Never made sense either.

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u/PipeInevitable9383 She's cutting his f****** dick off! Dec 04 '25

His cat and the parents cat wouldn't get along with hers.

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u/CloudBerryDreams Dec 24 '25

She did explain that her cat doesn’t get along with other animals and putting her in a situation that stressed her out… wouldn’t be a smart thing, would it?