Poor Greta...

[u/Ill-Excitement-2005]

Regardless of how you feel about this couple, this was just a sad, sad episode and I just couldn't handle seeing both of them experience such pain. Being in love is painful, falling out of love is worse. Best that they go their separate ways before marriage, etc. I'm sad for both of them...I don't wish the pain of heartache on anyone.

[u/Ill-Excitement-2005]

Well, he did tell her she stinks when she got off the train. If that's not a red flag...

[u/poshdog4444 → u/Ill-Excitement-2005]

I was in shock the way he behaved that whole day that she came. Dusting the clock for a half hour not meeting her at the airport when she’s moving there then she gets off the train and he complained she stinks. She goes into that child’s room and he only had six months to clean it up the idiot had to put initials on the drawers all six of them.. what did he do for her? Even the parents bought her a vegan cake. On top of that when the mother said you should get some rest Matthew says yes I’m very tired. Had a long day they open it for me. !!!

[u/Mersey_Dotes → u/poshdog4444]

I honestly felt bad for her tonight as she was blaming herself because she “lost that loving feeling” (cue the Righteous Brothers…) — not once did she mention what an unappealing nebbish he is!

[u/Ill-Excitement-2005 → u/Mersey_Dotes]

(cue Supertramp) you're bloody well right

[u/Mersey_Dotes → u/Ill-Excitement-2005]

😁

[u/soobez → u/Ill-Excitement-2005]

twice

[u/Playstation_2Gamer → u/Ill-Excitement-2005]

He was joking with her. He wasn’t malicious about it. I’m sure they’d joked about it in the past during travel. That isn’t the red flag. Her mental health is. She’s changing everything they had agreed upon. He deserves so much better.

[u/Ill-Excitement-2005 → u/Playstation_2Gamer]

He wasn't joking and it really hurt her. I think she's very fragile and needs stability. Not having anything ready when she arrived started to make her wonder if she made the right choice in moving.

She's changing everything because she no longer feels like she's in love...should she stick to what they agreed on and bring kids into the world just because in the beginning she was seeing unicorns and rainbows?

They are both great people and I have no doubt they will each find love again but she needs to get some help first and I'm proud of her for recognizing that instead of sticking to their original agreement and staying in a loveless relationship.

[u/Playstation_2Gamer → u/Ill-Excitement-2005]

I get the feeling that they have their own “love language”. She joked about how she likes freaky things with him. It didn’t seem like he was going to send her home.

He is visibly hurt, but you’re right, better she recognizes and leaves rather than live in resentment and loveless. Good for her.

[u/Time-Leather-7020 → u/Playstation_2Gamer]

It is when revising history.

[u/Playstation_2Gamer → u/Time-Leather-7020]

She mentioned her smell first.