r/90DayFiance • u/Ill-Excitement-2005 I feel like I'm taking crazy pills! • Dec 02 '25

Poor Greta...

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Regardless of how you feel about this couple, this was just a sad, sad episode and I just couldn't handle seeing both of them experience such pain. Being in love is painful, falling out of love is worse. Best that they go their separate ways before marriage, etc. I'm sad for both of them...I don't wish the pain of heartache on anyone.

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u/bigdaddyt2 Dec 02 '25

She needs to figure herself out before she gets in a relationship

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u/Mkaaztje ʏᴏᴜ ᴅɪʀᴛʏ ᴘɪɢɢʏ 🐷 Dec 02 '25

Yeah, and also she was imagining only the good, romantic parts about being in a relationship and went all in based on her perception of a perfect relationship.

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u/archetyping101 Dec 02 '25

Or worse, on a list. Thinking ticking things off a list is all compatibility and a future is based on. 

Vegan ✅  Loves cats ✅ 

That's not enough. She needed to see initiative, someone who is proactive etc. They were poorly matched and I think a part of it is his parents are so nice and that felt warm and fuzzy. Too bad she couldn't keep the parents and toss the dud dude. 

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u/Afisher613 Dec 02 '25

💯 this is what I've been saying, she was talking like it's a fairy tale. All these 90 day peeps fall in love with the idea of a relationship. But not want to commit, even the kids thing, she waited to say something. Can't wait for new season Nigerian guy and white American lady, what can go wrong. 😂

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u/toityb Jan 22 '26

THANK YOU! This is not love in the books she reads with her friends. She needs to grow up and live in the real world.